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| Author: | lala [ Thu Oct 25, 2012 2:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Expectations |
My post here is because of a situation I'm sure many have faced. I usually do day game since I don't go to clubs that often and as a result it usually requires a greater amount of time to spend with a girl. However, this also means you establish a deeper connection with her. Once you k-close a girl on a 'date' it rarely means a one-night stand (in my opinion). Although I'm not looking exactly for a one-night stand I currently do not want to get involved in any serious relationship. Since I'm also not looking to hurt anyone's feelings I would like to pose this as a general question. How do you manage the girl's expectations in such situations? How do you introduce to her the idea of a more casual relationship? Once you f-close a girl you've gone out with, what do you do if you don't want further commitment? Is telling her before the f-close and seeing if she agrees the only way? |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Thu Oct 25, 2012 3:46 pm ] |
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You turn the woman's own logic on her. Tell her that you just met and think she's really great but you don't want to rush into a relationship until you are really sure about her. This puts her in a tough spot, because she has to be the one to continue pursuing being with you just to get to know you long enough to have you consider her for relationship material. This means subsequent sexual encounters obviously. But you can space that out as much as you want, and keep some distance. Then if she starts trying to push the boyfriend thing or whatever, just tell her that you guys aren't there yet and create more distance and space between the two of you so she gets the point. |
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