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I think I blew an easy ONS. I need to learn to CLOSE!l
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Author:  compgeni [ Sat Oct 20, 2012 6:04 am ]
Post subject:  I think I blew an easy ONS. I need to learn to CLOSE!l
Hey Guys

I have an issue I'm trying to work though. I blow it with women. I can be having a nice interaction, but NEVER take it anywhere be it dates, sex, relationships...whatever. If it's going well, I will shut it down!

I think I blew what could have been an easy ONS. Maybe not. I was at a dance (yes I can dance) I am acquaintances with this girl who I see every now and again. We talk, we dance. I dont remember how it came up or what was said during the convo specifically, but I remember many key phrases.

Blah blah blah...
She mentioned that her husband was out of town and that he had the kids.
blah blah blah. blah blah blah
she mentioned hate sleeping alone.
blah blah blah blah blah.
she mentioned she hates hotels because there is something about your own bed and nice sheets (this is not inherently sexual, but I thought I'd throw it in there).
There is a bit more but I'll keep it short.

The SPAM was kind of flirty and fun. Good eye contact. Me, I just ignore it all. I know it's there, but I dont know what to DO with it. How to/If to/Do I do anything. There is a major mental block. I ran into her several more times that evening when I just let it go, and it was never the same.

Be as it may that she's married, would ethics allow me to play with her? i dont know. However, the issue at it's core still applies and is all ME. I need to work though this.
Author:  pumpington [ Sat Oct 20, 2012 6:11 am ]
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lets imagine here that you could say or do anything without failure,

what would you try to say/do in this situation where she is obviously explaining the logistics of this situation to you?
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