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Author:  dimaquality [ Sun Oct 07, 2012 10:10 am ]
Post subject:  Great sex on Friday > how to follow up? Txt her now or leave
Hi board,

Went out on Friday night, favourite lounge bar, dark red surroundings, old school hip-hop through the sound system.

HB was tall blonde chick, orange dress, white heels. 9.

Took her home at the end of night and we spent till 3pm next day in bed. Great sex.

She complimented me on several occasions on skills and said wants to be "bed buddies".

3pm DQ: "Luv ur wet pussy yummm" (she still at my place getting dressed in front of me)

4pm HB: "This morning was soooooo much fun :) :)"

4pm DQ: "I agree absolutely:P"

9.30 pm DQ: "How u feelin?:

10.30 pm HB: "Like shit! But i'm out :) You?"

11.49 pm DQ: "Hi smelly:P im out, feel awful, where are you out tonite"

00:51 am HB: Just got home, I am EXHAUSTED!! We went to Event - so fun. Sorry for delay my battery dies. Wanted u to come over but I'm too tired now :(


It is now 9 pm next nite. Should I send her nice txt bout my day and wish her nice week, or leave it for a couple of days??
Author:  dimaquality [ Mon Oct 08, 2012 9:00 am ]
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Strategy update.


I still have not replied. Decided not until at least Wednesday, or even next week.

Logic:
1. She wants to be fuck buddies, ie relationship based purely on sex. The only texts I should be sending her therefore need to contain hot/flirty material. No such purpose in acknowledging her rejection via friendly txt, as i was considering.

2. She is hot, knows it = probably expects me to fall for her. If I pay her little attention, that's probably the only wait to flip the situation.

3. She's kinky, very sexual. Any further communication from me will have to trigger those memories of our night.

PUA'a, what do you all think??

Here is a prototype of the follow up text:
"NOTICE: Nice girls dressed in their sexiest attire OR wearing nothing at all under the overcoat DO NOT REQUIRE booking. Candy, handcuffs and other treats for frivolous sexual feats. 9pm - late."

OR

"Here's my memories of you with me: Drip. Drip. Drip. Time for a catch up? x"

Please share your thoughts guys. Thanks.
Author:  AFC Stevie J. [ Mon Oct 08, 2012 2:25 pm ]
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I know one thing..you definitely should'nt use the second one.
Author:  dimaquality [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 12:14 pm ]
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FYI the top txt yielded response about 6 hours later:

"Haahaa! Thts a terrible txt ;) u and those handcuffs :) i wanted to sneak you this week but blah blah blah blah blah i want to catch up but got to get this blah blah blah sorted first xxx"

:?
Author:  SirPounceAlot [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 7:01 pm ]
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Do you know where she stays?

If so...choose a night...head over, send her a text

"I'm outside"

Then when she replies, just knock on the door, or she'll most likely open the door to check if you're there. Kiss, walk in and you know the rest.

It's simple.

That's what I would do, but then everyone has their own style. I say get in, while she still remembers the details.

Just being there with the intention of doing it, and the "knowing" that you'll get it will most likely make her think "this guys not going to take my excuses." - Think this is a plus...and it's spontaneous!

Good luck!
Author:  dimaquality [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 9:49 pm ]
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Unfortunately, do not have address.

Not sure whether to send her txt some time next week, or just wait. I was the last to text her in response to her long message.
Author:  SirPounceAlot [ Sun Oct 14, 2012 12:34 am ]
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And this is why I don't bring them to my place...plus its less work.

I can't help too much then. Texting her will make you needy...not good...especially since you were the last to reply to her.

What did you reply exactly? Maybe it screwed things up?

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Did you talk to her about how good sex was the last time you had it?...pref. the next morning?

Could be that yes she wants a sex buddy, but maybe she feels like you just took her for everything. Girls are sensitive like that?

As for what to do now...get yourself in the mindset you had when you got her in bed. And then hopefully you come up with a text to send that portrays what made her want you to begin with.

Best to wait on someone elses help, when it comes to this, always ALWAYS go to their place :) It's easier. Sorry can't help.
Author:  Molly [ Sun Oct 14, 2012 2:55 am ]
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Yea I'd post-it it. The second text was kind of quirky cute I guess, but glad you sent it because now she knows she's wanted.. but dude she kind of back-handed you. Don't text her anymore unless she's the first to text you. When she does text you tell her she's a bad girl and has to earn her way back into your bed. Girls like that love to play.
Author:  SirPounceAlot [ Sun Oct 14, 2012 3:26 pm ]
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Welcome to the forums Molly...

Kind of wondering what a girl like you is doing, snooping around a place like this?

Is it the sense of feeling great and excited when you know a guy is trying to work on his game on you (since you'll find here how it works)? or is it just curiosity and sense of well being that you can learn more about your female mind from guys?
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sorry about going off topic...Yes, I do agree with Molly. (Who would have thought a girl knew what girls want hah?
Author:  dimaquality [ Tue Oct 16, 2012 8:35 am ]
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One lesson from all this: just keep prospecting :twisted:

I would normally have txt her at lunchtime and and ask her how her trip went.

But just going to leave this one and see. She's 31 she should have the nerve to txt me first, especially if she liked the cock as much as she was claiming.

Leave this one for a while and wait. And meanwhile - I'm just gonna keep prospecting :D :twisted: [/b]
Author:  Jack-of-Clubs [ Tue Oct 16, 2012 11:26 am ]
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Prospecting does solve all problems :)

But Having been in this situation (not the same woman I hope) last week. I text her 3 days later.

Sitting and waiting for texts is 'less needy' but women do like to be told when meetings and hook ups are happening etc, as it takes responsibility for the evening away from them and onto you.

If she's not texting you and you text her and she doesn't text you back. What have you lost? as she's still just not texting you.

The only thing Inaction guarantees is nothing and all that.
Author:  dimaquality [ Tue Oct 16, 2012 8:14 pm ]
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Quote:
Prospecting does solve all problems :)

But Having been in this situation (not the same woman I hope) last week. I text her 3 days later.

Sitting and waiting for texts is 'less needy' but women do like to be told when meetings and hook ups are happening etc, as it takes responsibility for the evening away from them and onto you.

If she's not texting you and you text her and she doesn't text you back. What have you lost? as she's still just not texting you.

The only thing Inaction guarantees is nothing and all that.
Solid point mate. The whole thing about neediness is kind of bullshit. If she is keen, she will text back, and that is that. If I really had many other options and did not care one dime about her, what would I do? Probably flick her a text ;)
Author:  dimaquality [ Tue Oct 16, 2012 11:51 pm ]
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You see, I don't mind giving it another week, except for the fact Im so frickin horny and she would be ideal, but im just worried if it's a little soon to contact...
Author:  Jack-of-Clubs [ Wed Oct 17, 2012 10:18 am ]
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Just text her bud.

If you leave it more than 3 days to get in contact after a meet etc she's going to start forgetting all the connections and things you made previously.

That's simply what works (well enough) for me in the UK for 20-25 year olds your situation may be different.
Author:  dimaquality [ Thu Nov 01, 2012 11:31 am ]
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PROGRESS UPDATE

Thanks for input everyone.

I left in 12 days from last txt. Exchanged couple of txts on Sunday, with her being vague and pushing it another week.

Then I called her on following Saturday at around 8 pm after a few drinks and saw her later that night.

Some girls just prefer calls, I guess;)
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