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Author:  Newb4lyfe [ Wed Sep 19, 2012 4:35 am ]
Post subject:  Unusual woman, shouldn't be this hard.
I've met a girl who's i'd say a HB7 but attracted to her mostly because, she has never even kissed or dated ANYONE before. ( age of 18 )

Because shes been so single i'm curious if its because shes just not interested in anything or shes scared or what since shes not ugly.

I have done near everything right with her, except the fact when i have brought her around my friends shes not comfortable and i think that might have messed everything up?

I've tried simple texts and she acts extremely interested and uninterested on and off, heres a conversation:
(her nicknames turtle, and my nicknames notter)

Me:Hey i just saw this adorable turtle outside my house at a lake, i think he's single ;)
Her:Ahahahahah! Oh, my goodness.
Me:Don't worry, i put in a good word for ya.
Her: Oh, that is so kind of you.
Me: Yah I'm pretty much a sweetheart, no big deal.
Her:Haha, i guuuessss.
Me:Oh and by the way we're hanging out soon, i know you've been missing your notter time.
Her:Hmmm, if you say so. ;)

A few days later, i send a quick message saying im going to be running a few errands later nearby where she was if she'd like to hangout just to send a text (not in a question form, or making it sound significant enough to be considered a date)

Trying to get her to hangout with me again is becoming the issue, I'm not sure if i should suggest better things or how i should go about asking her next or if i should just drop her, i'm not diagnosed with oneitis.

Please note that i have been on day2, we went on a movie though ( please note even though it was a movie date which is usually a bad idea, i have near mastered these enough that i should be arrested for public indecency )

We've spooned the 2nd day i met her, cuddled at the movie theater (obviously)
no k-close yet because i generally respect her and since shes pure i want to make it above average of a kiss, even if i risk messing up things worse.

The thing is that she knows i've "made out" with two of her friends, atleast i think she would know about it, and the first time she met me i was half naked (unusual but voluntary) and i was more focused on her other friend at first (i also have just met her) , but i didn't engage her.

Once i can get her to hangout with me voluntary i know i can win her over.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Sep 19, 2012 1:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Unusual woman, shouldn't be this hard.
Quote:
no k-close yet because i generally respect her and since shes pure i want to make it above average of a kiss, even if i risk messing up things worse.
Oops! Look I may get jumped on here, but I believe that had you K-closed, things would be different.

You did not escalate to a kiss, although by day 2 it is at least anticipated!
This confused her. "I guess he doesn't like me that way?"

A confused mind will generally say NO! It puts you on the "friend zone" fence!

Chill it for a few days. (no contact).

Re-open.

Rebuild comfort before getting her to commit to a D3

Then, isolate, escalate, kino, and at the very least K-close!
Author:  JamesWatson31 [ Wed Sep 19, 2012 3:41 pm ]
Post subject: 
Perfect post and great advice. Must kiss ASAP.

I try and do it at the start of any date and not at the end.

Please do change your sig Heywood.

It should read:

Me: "Damn, it must be 10 SECONDS fast."
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Sep 19, 2012 4:17 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Perfect post and great advice. Must kiss ASAP.

I try and do it at the start of any date and not at the end.

Please do change your sig Heywood.

It should read:

Me: "Damn, it must be 10 SECONDS fast."
LOL Thanks, James I love the way you think, but I am getting older now so I endeavor to adapt myself thusly;

An old bull and a young bull stand on a hillside, overlooking a pasture. The young bull says to the old bull, “Hey, let’s run down and fuck one of those heifers.” The old bull replies, “No son, let’s walk down and fuck ‘em all.”
Author:  Newb4lyfe [ Thu Sep 20, 2012 3:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Unusual woman, shouldn't be this hard.
Quote:
Quote:
no k-close yet because i generally respect her and since shes pure i want to make it above average of a kiss, even if i risk messing up things worse.
Oops! Look I may get jumped on here, but I believe that had you K-closed, things would be different.

You did not escalate to a kiss, although by day 2 it is at least anticipated!
This confused her. "I guess he doesn't like me that way?"

A confused mind will generally say NO! It puts you on the "friend zone" fence!

Chill it for a few days. (no contact).

Re-open.

Rebuild comfort before getting her to commit to a D3

Then, isolate, escalate, kino, and at the very least K-close!

Thanks for the advice, i figured of the sort that was partially the issue.
Rebuilding comfort at this situation may be difficult especially over non-face-to-face interactions, always hard for me to deal with text game or phone game
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