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Author:  insta3 [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 2:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Any lines for a when a girl refuse to give her phone number?
Do you guys have a good line when a girl refuse to give you her phone number and goes : But you can add me on facebook.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Sep 12, 2012 2:36 pm ]
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Do you guys have a good line when a girl refuse to give you her phone number and goes : But you can add me on facebook.
"Don't worry I'll only text/call you a million times a day" (cocky/sarcastic)

"Facebook sucks, how 'bout your email, or don't you have electricity?" (same cocky)
Author:  jpow1981 [ Thu Sep 20, 2012 6:47 am ]
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I just tell her that's smart, and that you can't be too careful out there. Its a scary world out there. Build some more comfort and ask her if she still thinks you're a psycho stalker. If she says she's not comfortable at that point, just take the facebook add and run with it.
Author:  Hunter_Foxe [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 8:47 pm ]
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If your game is solid and smooth enough, she should not refuse to give you her number. If you indicate what you're going to do with her number, eg. "Me and my buddies are hitting up another club soon, so I will text you in there to let you know where we are" or "I will call you this week and arrange to hang out" then she will feel more at ease that you're not a psycho and you're not going call her 100 times a day.

My preferred method when I'm wrapping up for a number-close, I continue talking while I slowly get my phone out, so she is slightly distracted but so that she subconsciously has the visual idea of "phone" in her head even though she may not realise it. Then slowly hand her the phone and say "Hey, why don't you give me your number?". If you phrase it like a negative question, in order for her to refuse, she will need to think of a reason NOT to give you her number, which puts the pressure on her to think of a reason why. Women don't like confrontation, so the easier option is to give you their number.

"Can I have your number?" is wrong because it DLV, you shouldn't ask for her permission to do anything, your needs always comes first.

"Give me your number" may be better than begging for it, but also wrong because it could be seen as too aggressive and demanding, especially if it was a short conversation where you didn't build up enough friendly banter and rapport.
Author:  Az007 [ Wed Sep 26, 2012 4:56 am ]
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You should definitely aim for some cocky/funny reply like those stated above. Remember, statements are better than questions. Instead of "Can i have your number?", just pull out your phone and say 'maybe we can meet up for coffee later during the week.' or even 'is there a number i can reach you at?'

*if she refuses, after a certain point, it'll be obvious that you haven't gamed her properly or she isn't interested and the best thing you can do as a man is to simply walk away, brush it off, and game someone else :P
Author:  pwolf1703 [ Wed Sep 26, 2012 3:49 pm ]
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I would say the most important lesson here is to tighten up your game prior to the number close. If you do a good enough job, she won't refuse to give you her number.

Also, if a girl refuses to give you her number, and you work to get it again later. I would think the liklihood of her answering your call would be low
Author:  Paul_T [ Wed Sep 26, 2012 10:45 pm ]
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The sensible answers here are from pwolf1703 and jpow1981. Basically, if she is refusing the number but offering her facebook, she isn't that attracted to you yet. She is comfortable with you and likes you on some level - if she didn't she would just say no without offering her facebook. Just stop talking about the phone number (just drop it, don't try cocky comments here. They won't work as no matter how witty you think they are, by saying them you are drawing further attention to the fact that she doesn't want to give you her number. You want her to forget this!! So drop the cocky comments here.). Go back to conversation and hit on her a little more. Then try again. If she continues not to give you her number, she's not attracted to you, move on.

That's the short advice, and that was all I was going to write, but then I saw this.....
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"Hey, why don't you give me your number?". If you phrase it like a negative question, in order for her to refuse, she will need to think of a reason NOT to give you her number, which puts the pressure on her to think of a reason why. Women don't like confrontation, so the easier option is to give you their number.

"Can I have your number?" is wrong because it DLV, you shouldn't ask for her permission to do anything, your needs always comes first.
I have to say Hunter_Foxe, I completely agreed with all of your first paragraph. But this is just wrong. "Can I have your number?" is perfectly fine. I got a playboy models number by just asking for it. You don't need to phrase it as a negative question, and more importantly - while everyone doesn't like confrontation - saying no to giving out her number isn't really very big confrontation. If she doesn't want to give out her number, she won't, no matter how you phrase the question. Conversations between people don't break down when someone uses a double negative, and a negative question is not kryptonite to women ;). This is just not in any way true. Sorry!
Author:  Dusty-Page [ Thu Sep 27, 2012 12:12 pm ]
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If your game is solid and smooth enough, she should not refuse to give you her number. If you indicate what you're going to do with her number, eg. "Me and my buddies are hitting up another club soon, so I will text you in there to let you know where we are" or "I will call you this week and arrange to hang out" then she will feel more at ease that you're not a psycho and you're not going call her 100 times a day.
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^^ This.
And it doesn't really matter how you ask for it, word phrasing or whatever.
My thing is if you build enough comfort, interest, you have attraction all over the place then my friend she doesn't really have a reason to not give you her number.

But on the other hand if you don't build enough comfort, interest etc. it doesn't matter what type of line you use, she may give you her number but the chances of her still Flaking is through the roof, or she may even give you a fake number. Ever wondered why guys get tons of numbers, but still can't turn those to actual meet-ups and dates?

so basicly my advice to you is, tighten up your game my. build enough comfort, and interest prior to getting the number.

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Author:  Beast 45 [ Sat Sep 29, 2012 1:45 pm ]
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Don't ask for her number. As fro her phone, put your number in and text yourself. Your boldness will charm her.
Author:  purplem [ Sun Sep 30, 2012 11:55 pm ]
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"I don't give out my number to people I barely meet."

Let's change that.

OR

What do you want to know?

But it basically comes down to this. If you can't close the number, you messed up earlier in your game. Most problems relate to you messing up somewhere earlier. Not developing comfort, no attraction etc.
Author:  SirPounceAlot [ Mon Oct 01, 2012 12:16 am ]
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This shouldn't even happen to you...if you set things up correctly in the start...

Come on guys...you messed up somewhere in your game...coming up with a come back will help...BUT

How about writing a list of how things went...and seeing where you messed up and changing it and working on it...so you don't mess up...

FIX THE CAUSE OF THE PROBLEM, NOT THE PROBLEM.

The cause is what you did previously to asking for her number.
The problem is not being able to get what you want (in this case not getting a number)

Fix the cause...you won't need to know to fix the problem.
It's simple...think of it like this

(KINO when possible)
Fluff talk, make her laugh, have her tell you something interesting that she does, tell her something you do that somehow related to that something she likes to do, DEFINATELY KINO during this when she is describing why she likes xyz, (always be looking into her eyes, dont stare but yes look in there)...neg hit about that something she likes, tell her your joking or whatever while touching her shoulder, have her qualify to you...then you can freely qualify yourself to her, tell her how she's different because of xyz, tell her you'd love to get a drink afterwards or whenver or you know a perfect place to do x that she liked...

Should take about 15 minutes...of kino and talk and shoulder touching and such...then ask for her number so you call her and arrange a time to do x.

AS LONG AS a girl has a reasonable reason to give you her number she'll give it in this situation....hope this kind of helps in how you should try running something on a random chick.
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