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Author:  blahblahblah21 [ Wed Aug 22, 2012 9:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Commuication guidelines in between first and second dates?

Does anyone have any general advice/guidelines for how to proceed communication wise after the first date?

If a second date wasn't set up, should you be in touch via call or text before attempting to set up a second one, or should setting up the second date be first contact?

Text or call, and any content recommendations?

Bad move to text the same night after the first date?

I don't know if that situation is formulaic enough that people can provide answers without a specific example, but any thoughts are appreciated.

Author:  BassOpens [ Thu Aug 23, 2012 4:47 am ]
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There's no single working formula. Girls are different and so are the situations and circumstances under which you meet them.

What I'm trying to say is that you could meet a girl tonight and text her tomorrow morning and depending on the girl (and how well you play it) you could still have great success....

Generally its not always that way..

It's not the same texting a girl you met half-drunk at the club saturday night than texting the girl you just met outside starbucks while she was walking her dog this morning...

In my personal opinion, whatever the scenario is, I'd wait at least 2 days before you call or text :)

If you text her be short, funny, have a purpouse and do not get stuck on one topic. Also remember not to reply her right away...

You want to stablish contact first of all but you dont want to make long txt conversation (remember, you probly have things to do ;) ). You want to have a purpouse, you were not just "thinking of her" (Like you just remembered she still doesnt have your number and you want to make sure she does). You want to be funny but not clownish...

By the way. I would call if I wanted to set up a D2....

If you're gonna call, remember the same thing... Funny, keep it short, have a purpouse, listen and pay attention to what she says, have a strong confident voice, Smile (Yes, Smile at the phone :D Always suggest a day (do not, please, do not say "When can you do it?, do you have free time?")

Author:  TheOldOneTwo [ Sun Aug 26, 2012 11:42 am ]
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In my personal opinion, whatever the scenario is, I'd wait at least 2 days before you call or text :)

If you text her be short, funny, have a purpouse and do not get stuck on one topic. Also remember not to reply her right away...
I would have to disagree, most women see straight through that waiting 2 or 3 days . I personally will text them just after we have meet and we have just parted ways usually works if you put a little humor in it.

Once she messages back I ignore it for a day or two, most of the time she will message you back again. :)

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