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| Author: | Pr0d1Gy [ Thu Aug 02, 2012 5:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Desperately need some advise before I screw this up!! |
Hello everyone, I posted on here a few days ago about a hb9 that I k-closed on the weekend (see previous post for details) and basically I added her on Facebook the next day (as we agreed to). I sent her a few messages and have arranged to meet when she comes back in a couple of weeks. Basically I want some advise on a couple of things, firstly should i message her on Facebook whilst she's away and if so how often? (I did send her a couple of cocky funny messages a couple of days ago that went down well but nothing since) Secondly it's her birthday in just over a week and I'm wondering if I should do anything? Any thoughts on anything would be good as I've never got to the point where I have been on a proper date with a girl or been in a relationship and I really don't want to mess this one up as I really like her! Cheers Pr0d1Gy |
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| Author: | JacquesMaurice [ Thu Aug 02, 2012 5:33 pm ] |
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Don't be in contact all that much, any contact you do have keep it short and EXCITING. Build the sexual tension so by the time she sees you she is ready to explode. Don't confuse unavailability for coldness! ROOKIE MISTAKE! Keep the interactions as brief as is necessary to: 1) make her smile 2) get you into her thoughts 3) set a sexual frame Also leave every interaction at it's highest point but do the leaving in a nice, polite and warm way. |
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| Author: | Pr0d1Gy [ Thu Aug 02, 2012 6:07 pm ] |
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Thanks that's really helpful, point one and two I can manage but I'm just not too sure now how to set a sexual frame? Have you got any tips/examples? I'm really not good at this and seem to mess things up at this stage the few times I have been in this situation! Cheers Pr0d1Gy |
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| Author: | JacquesMaurice [ Thu Aug 02, 2012 6:26 pm ] |
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Check out skills360's topic in the PUA Lounge -- The skills Secrets to text game... Read every word, digest it and make sure you understand the reasoning for why it works. Don't stray too far from the path when it comes to the script until you have practised it many times. After that you can start to develop your own lines when you understand where you are trying to get to with your words. Successful texting is one of those things that seems to work the opposite way around to natural intuition so this is why I stress that you read as much as you can to do with the subject. With text game (particularly with a girl whom you have already attracted and developed a rapport) you have a whole lot to lose and not a great deal to gain so operate on the principle less is more |
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| Author: | Pr0d1Gy [ Fri Aug 03, 2012 6:54 am ] |
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Cheers that's been a great help, I'm going to put it into practice and see how it goes! Pr0d1Gy |
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| Author: | Pr0d1Gy [ Fri Aug 03, 2012 11:11 pm ] |
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Ok so I read all of that several times over and I just couldn't bring myself to send any of it, im not sure why but I didn't, instead I sent her this ME Hey Pumba, I got home from work today and my little sister was watching the lion king..... I can see the resemblance now! :s) HER You fucker :p How was work?? ME Lol, it was good thanks, mega busy! Wish I was on holiday too!! ME What have you been up ME Hey you, looking forward to moving into (place where I live)? Where the hell do I go from here, do I ignore her and If so how long do I leave it before doing something? Or do I try and send something else? I'm sorry I'm just really bad at this, after everything seemed to be going so well! Any advise would be great! Cheers Pr0d1Gy |
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