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| Author: | FlyingKing [ Thu Aug 02, 2012 12:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Translating from shared interests to attraction |
Alright guys, first post! I've been dabbling in PUA material for a few months, but enough about my personal history. Story: Pretty much saw this girl at a restaurant I go to very often, and noticed we were playing a staring game but I pussed out the first time and left empty handed. Luck struck later that week when I visited the same place (its a bar/club at night) and was introduced to her by a mutual friend. Yada yah after some time alone we found out we were both avid musicians and exchanged information so we could get together and jam. HOWEVER, the interaction had a lot of teasing and attraction (via my intuition) so I figured it was a great outlet to get together. The first night we hung out she stayed at my place for about 6 hours, where we got into very deep conversations and connected on a multitude of levels. The following day she texts me and says she wants to hang out, but now I'm at the point where I want to start pushing the whole (we're getting together to jam) part away and narrow in on the "lets see where this attraction takes us." How can I transition out of that and convey this to her without being overtly aggressive? Thanks! FK |
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| Author: | JackBNimble [ Thu Aug 02, 2012 7:34 am ] |
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From the sounds of it, you've been 100% passive with this girl. It's fine to build tension without acknowledging it, but you don't make it sound as though you've been doing that either. This all sounds quite AFC to me. If you're not friendzoned yet, you're about to be. Go caveman. You have nothing to lose. Edit: Being overtly aggressive is the only thing that may salvage this. So, if you're against that, ditch this girl before onitis sets in. |
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