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Author:  DudeX [ Wed Aug 01, 2012 11:58 am ]
Post subject:  Date Cancel, what now?
Hi!

So I had this date comming up tommorow with a girl. I met her two weeks ago and we kissed a bit and got her number..Talked to her a few times on the phone and textet.

Anyway I got this text today

Hi Mr.X
Hope you had a good time partying saturday(she wase't with me) I have to cancel out apointment tomorrow. Have something there are't comepletly finished. Så I can't see you...sorry....Hug*S

Kind of nice cacel msg I may say...How to respond? should I just give totally up on her and write. Hey no big deal.

:shock:
Author:  Hammerofdawn [ Wed Aug 01, 2012 12:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Date Cancel, what now?
Quote:
Hi!

So I had this date comming up tommorow with a girl. I met her two weeks ago and we kissed a bit and got her number..Talked to her a few times on the phone and textet.

Anyway I got this text today

Hi Mr.X
Hope you had a good time partying saturday(she wase't with me) I have to cancel out apointment tomorrow. Have something there are't comepletly finished. Så I can't see you...sorry....Hug*S

Kind of nice cacel msg I may say...How to respond? should I just give totally up on her and write. Hey no big deal.

:shock:

Come across like your cool with it and you have other things to do anyway, then Freeze her out, it's her loss.

A good thing I normally do is I add the word 'FLAKE #' next to her name in my phone so I know she's on freeze out, then when I decide to unfreeze her I replace that with (S#) - Trust me its useful when you have multiple HB's on the go.

KEY:
# = Is the number she’s on in the 3 strike rule - They stack, even if i've dated her since and she decides to flake again.
(S#) = Strike 1 or 2 (3 is usually delete)

This is what works for me, you can probably devise your own similar system.
Author:  jcombs [ Wed Aug 01, 2012 4:05 pm ]
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the worst cancel every. It happens I remember a girl I hooked up "straight up best hook by far" I had done but she flopped on a date. I kept pushing for one more but didn't work out. When a women cancels and doesn't reschedule to meet up again and expects you to make a new time you should leave her and move on.

Another girl I date the pick up I had she did cancel but when she did she mentioned she had something and explained to me it was her fault and asked if we can meet up next week. I gave a date and time again and she then did meet up with me that time. The way this lady had left you it was pretty cold. She apologized and hoped you had a good time. To me its her way of saying "Sorry I am not into you but hope you have a great life"

Move on get another women and get a date whereby she actually wants to meet. She left you pretty cold.

Everyone on this forum will say play cool or get another girl make her jealous. In reality this game PUA stuff is a #'s game, get as many numbers and hope one goes through. Get 10 numbers of HB 10's and hope one follows through rather then working on one. It hurts to get dumped but she did it and get over it and re-caliberate to get a new girl that is better and more receptive to your emotions!
Author:  Roy Hobbs [ Wed Aug 01, 2012 4:59 pm ]
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Unless she cancelled for legitimate reasons and is showing every effort to go out again, then fuck her. Move on.
Author:  Clive55 [ Wed Aug 01, 2012 6:24 pm ]
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Don't acted phased by it. The worst thing you could do is reply with "You ungrateful bitch! I hate you!"

Make other plans and get busy with other girls or other priorities in your life.
Author:  DudeX [ Wed Aug 01, 2012 9:10 pm ]
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To me it seemed like she had som unfinished buisness with some dude.

Anyway I couln't overcome to write back too her, too lazy I guess or dide't really feel like it. She might think im mad at her now but wtf :)

Instead another girl wrote to me, If I would go out for drinks friday so wTH :P

Lucky for once I guess haha!

Ps.Ty for answers. Hope others can use this for the future.
Author:  PeteLDN [ Fri Aug 03, 2012 9:29 am ]
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Quote:
To me it seemed like she had som unfinished buisness with some dude.

Anyway I couln't overcome to write back too her, too lazy I guess or dide't really feel like it. She might think im mad at her now but wtf :)

Instead another girl wrote to me, If I would go out for drinks friday so wTH :P

Lucky for once I guess haha!

Ps.Ty for answers. Hope others can use this for the future.
text her back after a day freeze out and if she responds then maybe you can use her for a pivot.. if not fuck it .. thank god there are more women then men haha we are too blessed!
Author:  Heyday [ Sun Aug 05, 2012 6:35 am ]
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@HammerOfDawn Interesting tip I'm gonna implement that.

I say game her over text 2 days later as if nothing happened. I never respond to the flake text itself though.
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