I met this hot girl (who I really didn't think I had a chance with) the other night (Friday) and after getting loads of IOI's from her I decided to not push things and be a bit arrogant and maybe dismissive of them (cat string theory) as I knew that she was coming out to the same place the following night and so was I!
So the following night came along and to start with I adopted the same approach from the previous night and then slowly started giving her IOI's too, this made her more and more determined and she started making moves on me! It got to the point where I was at the bar she came and stood next to me and whispered in my ear 'can you put your arm around me and pretend that you are my boyfriend as that guy over there keeps trying it on' I wasn't too sure what to do so I went with it and put my arm around her.
The night then went on and I continued the same as I did the first night and she got more and more persistent and then I cracked and kiss closed her as we left the bar. It was then decided that we (me, my mate, the girl and her married female friend) should go back somewhere and carry on with night so we went back to my mates house where we chatted and I got to know her better and I felt I made a real connection with her and got the impression she felt the same, we then kissed before we both went home and she said to add her on Facebook!
So the next day comes and I leave it for a while before finding her and adding her at around 2pm the next day. I then decided to send her a message and they read as follows.
ME
Hey, had a really good time last night i hope you did too. We should do it again sometime? x
HER
Yeah great night!! I'll be back!! Well have to have another big one!!
ME
'That club' one night would be good, haven't been there in ages and i know how much you love it! Do you fancy meeting up next week sometime if you have time?
HER
I'm back at home all of next week in afraid... Won't be in (where i live) until mid August...
But We should do 'that club' when I get settled!!
ME
Ah thats a shame have fun at home and i'll see you soon! Here's my number 07_________ let me know when your free and we'll catch up then! x
'that club' is a club that she mentioned in conversation that I also know about and we both said we liked. I've also left out where I live as I kind of want to keep this private
Ok so its now Tuesday and I'm not sure what to do and I kind of wish I had left myself with a bit more to go on rather than leaving her to contact me!
So do I contact her again, and if so what do I say?
Or do I leave it play it cool and hope that she contacts me either mid August
or before then? Or do something else?
I basically want to meet up with her again when she moves back (mid August) but also kind of want to keep in contact with her in the meantime via Facebook or another means and keep building on where I have gotten already. It's also her birthday in a few days and I'm not sure what to do there either.
Any help/suggestions would be hugely appreciated, I'm just not very good with this whole thing as I've never been on a date and never had a girlfriend before and have only started getting results thanks to advise from people and using what I've learnt from all the brilliant people on this forum!
Cheers
Pr0d1Gy
