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Author:  Jessie370z [ Sun Jul 22, 2012 11:43 pm ]
Post subject:  #closed a stripper, having a hard time with d2
so i was very cocky and funny with lots of negs at the club, showed very little interest, long story short # closed her, we texted that same night she misses me blah blah
have been texting here and there since, convos have been pretty sexual,

she wanted to hang out last night i was too tired we agreed on lunch today,
i texted her in the am (lunch was for 2) we texted around 12 she told me what she did last night and then just stopped responding, or answer the phone, this is 2nd time shes done that we arrange to hang out and she just disapears

what should my move be? ignore her?
Author:  jk257 [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 8:12 am ]
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Hi Jessie

You havent written much info about your situation, but you should bare in mind that strippers meet a whole load of men who all probably treat her like a sex object so i'd advise to treat her like a regular friend dont text about sex you could even neg her about it if she starts texting about sex. Be her friend and shell be yours in no time.

If shes currently not texting you, leave it alone for a while and see if she starts texting you if not leave it a week or so and contact her but dont text, try to meet her face to face if you know where she hangs out go there and play it cool

Regards
JK
Author:  Jessie370z [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 8:12 pm ]
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she did text me
i responded, "thought you wanted to hang out"

she said I do i promise

we text back and forth but when it comes to setting up a meeting time shes MIA
Author:  jk257 [ Tue Jul 24, 2012 7:23 am ]
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maybe "hanging out" really isn't what she's looking for. What you need to offer is something interesting. Wherever it is you live, look for something interesting and organize a social gathering and invite her. If you make it social with a lot of people there it really doesn't make a lot of odds whether she goes or not and maybe your even meet some one else at the same time. If you don't know that many girls just organize a social event on meetup.com or couchsurfing or just invite all your friends on fb to whatever it is you decide. I find picnics and pool parties are always the most popular
Author:  Jessie370z [ Wed Jul 25, 2012 6:12 pm ]
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update

I just ended up looking up when she was working at the strip club and went there with my bro last night

she saw and was all excited to see me
she asked me what i was doing that night i said "hanging out with her you" i made her get off early and we bounced, took her to the beach and k closed

the reason she flaked it ended up was that she was nervous, said "you are out of my league" lol she wasnt used to being treated like a normal person and not a sex object
Author:  dukehoopz30 [ Thu Jul 26, 2012 4:44 am ]
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from reading the recent update going back there and seeing her was a smart move. now im not sure how much you normally spend at strip clubs but if u have been spending hundreds of dollars on this girl she may have been able to "get off early" and hang out with you. this my not be the situation but i feel its important to ask.

going back to your texting its going to be hard to get a girl to hang out w you outside the strip club without time bridging correctly. by this i mean u prob got her number and then just dipped out thinking.... oh ill text her and she will just meet up w me no problem bc im a PUA and im funny, she was attracted to me, ect. This isnt true for a lot of the time... and its because attraction fades with time... even if its only a few hours. You have to bridge your next meet up RIGHT when you get her number. Use the number as just a reminder... but when u leave u2 should already have plans for the next day or the day after... which she agreed on. A number imo doesnt really mean much of anything... not taking anything away from you or the pickup... just saying what really matters is if she is willing to meet you again. Which if u didnt go back to the strip club she prob wouldn't have met up w you again.... which has nothing to do with you.... its just u didnt build enough comfort the first time... so u had to go back and build more comfort and then she finally bounced w you and made out with you. Boom.

again good luck... and i hope this stripper is attractive??! i kno people assume that most strippers are super attractive... but in many cases they arnt... and some r really kind of gross... Hope yours is legit haha. The only reason i raise concern is when she said that you were "way out of her league" and that she did give u a number and seemed interested via text. Im assuming this of course that if this stripper was a 10 she most likly wouldn't have given her number out bc she has or had a bf... and prob wouldn't be so interested in the texting bc she has a billion other options. Again i could be totally wrong... but iv gamed a lot of strippers and i know how they are somemtimes :P


GL
DUKE
Author:  Jessie370z [ Thu Jul 26, 2012 4:50 am ]
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to clear things up i never spend money on strippers and this one hasnt revieved a penny from me, in fact i had her buy me a drink at the club lol

and the reason she said i was out of her league is because i am alot smarter and proper then her, she didnt finish HS and i have a degree, she is used to very "ghetto" men in her life who cant even put together a sentence

and yes she was one of the good ones, a solid 7.5

we have been talking since and we talked about doing a movie at her place where i will F close, will keep ypu posted
Author:  brary [ Thu Jul 26, 2012 7:16 am ]
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I wouldn't worry too much about it man. She's a stripper and like someone said, she meets guys all the time, meaning she doesn't really feel that "spark" when you meet someone interesting and new.

You'd have to go back to the strip club and game her up again if you really want a day 2, texting won't cut it. Don't ignore her, she'll probably forget you.
Author:  Jessie370z [ Sun Jul 29, 2012 12:08 am ]
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dont know where i went wrong

so a couple of days ago i ended up going back to the strip club (her phone was cut of and i couldnt get ahold of her, turns out she changed her # and gave me her new number right away)

well anyway she ended up gettign off early and i drove down to the beach with her
we walked around and i ended up kissing her, we made out for awhile. she tried to go further and grabed my junk and i stopped her ( dont know why she caught me of gaurd, im beating myself up for this)
i ended up driving her back to her place and we made out again several time, as i was driving home she called and texted me several times to see if i got home ok and wanted to talk to me, we spoke on the phone when i got home and seemed upset that i didnt put out lol, said shes never had sex on the beach and wanted to, she seemed really into me but ever since shes been distant

the other night i texted her saying "movie, your place or mine"
she repsonded "iether one :)

then when i suggested a time and place she didnt responde, i sent her a few texts here and there and still no response

so last night i gave in and called her on restricted (very needy i realize that now)

the convo went like this

me: why you been ignoring me?
hb: i havnt, i have been very busy
me: what are you up to?
hb: im at my friends party, why you calling me from restricted, i hate that shit
me: oops my phone did it on accident
hb: ya bs, look my battery is going to die im going to let you go
me: bye

whats going on here? could it be she is upset that i didnt make the move on her? or is she just really busy
and where do i go from here?
thanks
Author:  Jessie370z [ Mon Jul 30, 2012 10:00 pm ]
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any1?
i sent her a text the other day
"hey, won 1.5mil in the lotto, sooo..just texting to say good bye:)

no response

its her bday tomrow
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