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| Author: | IAmMaynardJamesKeenan [ Sun Jul 22, 2012 10:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | 1st date went decently, doesn't answer my call |
Maybe I'm just overreacting, but I just take these kind of ignores personally...like I did something to offend them etc. In short, we were texting for a week, made a connection (or it seems) and finally got together for a date. I'll try to gather some relevant data: -Did some kino: couple of hugs, touches etc... she seemed receptive. -She kept smiling, was talking all the time, kept staring at my eyes... -She's a busy girl, that day she worked by 8pm and met me at 9pm. She had a few surges of mental deflation around 11. Thought it's boredom but she said she's exhausted. -At one point she kind of flipped (could have been jokingly, can't really tell) when I asked her something personal, she went "Whoa! I feel interrogated!" (repeats question) (repeats question) (repeats question)... and then answered the question. I had a good laugh about it. -After this point conversation went same as before...with a lot of smiles etc... she didn't seem affected by the flip out. -Then she mentioned this private party she's going to, and wanted me to come with her, to what I said: "I'll think about it", with a smile. So this party mentioning was AFTER the flip. -as well near the end she told me that she'll give me her SPAM so I can send her some of my music for running. So in the next 2 days I sent a message and tried to call once about the party but no answers. I mean even when we were texting for a week before, she did answer after 24 hours couple of times...but it's been like 3 days now. Is this normal? Maybe I'm just overexaggerating, but I really like this one and I'm thinking what the hell did I do wrong. As well what should i do next? I'm not really comfortable sending any more messages but if it's over then I don't give a fuck. I need to know what happened |
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| Author: | In$tinct [ Sun Jul 22, 2012 10:57 pm ] |
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There can be billions of reasons why she doesn't respond. One of them is that she's not interested. I wouldn't message her any time soon. Go on, game other women, if you say you don't really give a fuck then act like that too. If she's interested she'll most likely message. If not, you can try like a week later. I mean, you really have nothing to lose with this girl so why not try? If she doesn't reply to that either well then it really is pretty much over. Probably some won't be happy with my comment to send her another last text but I like to give it a very last shot(and I admit that not too many times, but it was worth it in some of the cases) |
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| Author: | IAmMaynardJamesKeenan [ Sun Jul 22, 2012 11:15 pm ] |
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Hey, thank you for your answer. That's exactly what I meant by not giving a fuck (if I look desperate)... I'm going for that last push if I think it's over. I don't usually stress about hot girls because they are usually, pardon my language... dumb bitches. But this one is intelligent, charismatic, infectious smile, loves animals, run half-marathons... or was she lying to get me into bed and I didn't get the hint? She said she went to a party by the river and ended up playing with a stray dog for 4 hours... I was like "Are you real?" In all honesty I'd like her as a friend also. I guess I'll wait 5-6 days after my last message and try one last time. Though I wouldn't be surprised if she send me a message tomorrow saying something like "Hey, sorry for not answering... had an insane weekend..." Cheers again. |
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| Author: | In$tinct [ Sun Jul 22, 2012 11:46 pm ] |
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Yeah well given that she has many things going on it can also be the case. I hope the bests for you. Happy sarging, mate! |
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