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Author:  Franches [ Wed Jul 18, 2012 5:08 pm ]
Post subject:  sharing, and asking for any advice you can give to improve
first of all, sorry for my bad english, but im from argentina and not very fluent.

The thing is, i used to date a girl a while ago ( give or take 4 months ) now we started chatting again, yesterday i picked her up from work and left her at her house ( yes afc, but i wanted to talk to someone ) we chat about shit, how is she doing, if shes dating anyone, if im dating anyone, etc. When we arrive to her place i did the cube test on her, just to have fun. While she inmagined it i couldnt stop staring at her, wanting to kiss her, so after the cube i told her i had a present for her, but she had to close her eyes and extend her hand. She does it, and i kiss her, it wasent like the kisses we used to have, that where really passionate, it was just lips no tounge nothing... anyway, she was startled, told me i was an idiot, but with a smile on her face and kinda laughing, we chat 2 seconds more and then she leaves. After i arrive to my house we had the following text conversation
NOTE: she loved the cube, was jumping up and down in exitment and asked me if i knew any more, told her i did, but next time we see each other i would perform them.
ME: Remind me to teach you the union of souls, visualization exercises and also how to tell if someone is lying. I hope today's talk helped you.

HER:what? know if someone is lying? when? yes! thanks!

ME:LOL I told you that you dont know me well. I am a mistery.

HER:And you dont know me. I am a mina ( mina is like saying woman in a bad way ) with a hard shell, full of mistery.

ME: you are not a mina, your a woman before everything. I didnt know you where a mistery, lucky for me i like solving them!

HER:Lmao I did not like the stolen kiss it was not the situation or my time. I do not want you to be upset tho.

ME:Why should I? i realized it was not the times ( and it wasnt ) you could tell by the kiss too, but from the time i saw you i wanted to kiss your lips. Do not blame someone for doing what he feels.


She did not answer me after that, and im not about to text her again. Was i good or bad? any tips? thank you all.
Author:  nitty03 [ Wed Jul 18, 2012 7:46 pm ]
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Obviously your iois were on point. She was sweating you. She liked the kiss. But why r u telling her so much of your feelings? You aren't a mystery. I can't see right through you, and her, and her word doesn't seem trustworthy.

I dont know if being in the game to win your ex back is the right mindset but maybe some will disagree. However, if you insist, then stay true to the game and dont act like you and your girl have that emotional connection that you used to have.
Author:  Franches [ Thu Jul 19, 2012 2:37 am ]
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actually, im not in this for her, im in this for me. I already knew the game when we met used very little of it to get her tho. And i have no feelings for her besides caring for her as i would anyone who has shared and i to her so much. What do you mean that her word isnt trustworthy? I realized i shouldnt have said that after i sent the message, but i was half asleep trying to keep myself close to her, and the afc response was the first one to come to mind lol. Good thing to hear it from someone who knows this well. continue helping out please :D
Author:  nitty03 [ Thu Jul 19, 2012 2:51 am ]
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I'm just saying that she's letting you know that she feels she is a mina. So in her opinion she is a mystery. Just let it ride, the stolen kiss was a good move but you could have built it with more Kino. Get other girls' numbers too, its important to have options!
Author:  Franches [ Thu Jul 19, 2012 7:09 pm ]
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So how should i take it from here? call her, ask her out, or go to her place, surprise her with flowers.... NAAA just kidding lol. But seriusly, what should i do now? Also she hasnt answered the text, and i know that the worst thing i could do now is text her about the same conversation.
Author:  Franches [ Fri Jul 20, 2012 3:31 am ]
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ok, help pronto, she just texted me this
"In spite of all that happened you where and are a friend to me, have a really good time!"

i do not know what the fu.. to say please, help me, my first reaction is to ask her if the message was intended for me, but it wont be cool or any shit. I am completely in a loss of words....
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