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Author:  devi4nt [ Sun Jul 08, 2012 10:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Didn't reply to first text. Do I send a second?
Sorry to post another text question after kiss close I know the place is swamped with them as it is ha.

Basically hooked up with this girl last night and kiss closed at the club. It seemed to be going really well with lots of compliance from her Exchanged numbers and got her to prank call me so I got hers. Text her today. Can't remember what I said exactly but it was along the lines of saying I had fun last night and that I'm cool, she's cool and we should go hang out over drinks next week and do something really chill.

I know I'm jumping the gun as she could just reply tomorrow as I only sent it 4 or so hours ago but it doesn't look likely.

What is the deal on sending a second text before calling it a day? I'm guessing wait a few days maybe towards the end of the week.

Main question is though what to say in the second text? Should I ignore the fact she hasn't replied and start a new trend?

Cheers guys! 8)
Author:  jeroentje212 [ Mon Jul 09, 2012 10:57 am ]
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I wouldn't send her a second if she doesn't reply. I personaly would want her to work for it a little. Have some patience, and i think she wil text eventually. If you going to text anyway, change the subject. Dont ask why she didn't reply, this is clingy and not cool. Succes!
Author:  Fluffs [ Mon Jul 09, 2012 11:39 am ]
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Frame it like this:
You just wanna have fun with her. (I love this frame, mhhhhhhh.)
You don't want sex, you just wanna mess with her.

You will persist, though, you could have others. (as in leave).
You wanna have fun, so why not with her, even though she doesn't want you, you could troll/neg her. p; (I did this with my ex, found out she had a boyfriend after that though T.T)

You're a little pissed at her. (Do negs later on.)
She didn't respect you, you MUST be pissed. Let her off easily for the first time, though.
Author:  devi4nt [ Mon Jul 09, 2012 3:59 pm ]
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I wouldn't send her a second if she doesn't reply. I personaly would want her to work for it a little. Have some patience, and i think she wil text eventually. If you going to text anyway, change the subject. Dont ask why she didn't reply, this is clingy and not cool. Succes!
Thanks man. I normally wouldn't bother with a follow up text if they didn't reply first time and I'd just delete their number but she was pretty hot and had perfect style which, where I live is very rare!
Yeah I thought it might be best to avoid mentioning that. Cheers.

She's either a) not interested. b) embarrassed she kissed someone she just met and isn't normally like that and thinks I think she's a slut or something :lol: or c) maybe I was too forward in stating we should hang out the following week in the first text.

And cheers MrFluffs. How would I go about putting those concepts in to a text though?

Anyone have any ideas on what I could send as it doesn't look like she's going to reply to my first one now. I was thinking maybe just "reminding her of who I was in case she was that drunk and got more than one guys number that night and just saying add me on facebook and if not we'll leave it at that"? Too lame? Needy?
I'm off to see Blink 182 tomorrow and I'm pretty sure she mentioned liking them. Maybe just mention that (the day after) and tease her by saying how good they were?

Any advice much appreciated 8)
Author:  Fluffs [ Mon Jul 09, 2012 4:48 pm ]
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It depends on the situation there. I'm just telling what effect you should try and create.

Mainly what I (let's point out the me here, ok? p;) would text her would be totally random, fun and that'd make her reply to me:
"Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaai. ;3"
or without the hi as you have those tickets.
"OH, OH, OH, I have tickets to Blink 182. U Jelly? ;3" (sarcastic bragging, actually)
After that text you can tease her talking about how awesome it'll be for you and all that stuff. Reveal that you could invite her only at the end, like, oh yh I just thought of that.

It's just my style, I'm all about fun all the time, cuz that's what life is for rite? p;
Author:  devi4nt [ Tue Jul 10, 2012 3:58 pm ]
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thanks mate

I took your advice and sent a rather dorky fun text to her. Didn't even put a question in for her to reply just to say I'm off to see the band tonight and having fun.

She replied instantly saying sorry she didn't reply blah blah same old crap :lol:
and then all she said was 'hope you have a nice night x'

okay so not much for me to go with but I won't reply now till tomorrow but any tips?
to me she doesn't seem that keen from that text but if she ignored me the first time surely she could have just ignored me the second time right?

Anything I could reply with or any advice much appreciated 8)
Author:  Fluffs [ Tue Jul 10, 2012 4:48 pm ]
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What did you send her?
1. Make sure she's having fun with you and likes you.
2. Neg her as much as you feel is needed.
3. Get her trust. Make her respect you as a character. Make sure she thinks you're smart and responsible. (Show her you're on her side, but not willing to give yourself up to her.)
4. Turn on a sexual frame and tell her it's OK with you. (Micro escalate.)
5. Fun time.
Author:  devi4nt [ Wed Jul 11, 2012 9:34 pm ]
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I just text her some random funny fact compltely unrelated to my first text and said how I'm off to Blink gonna have so much fun bet you're gutted.

I replied to her text earlier but I guess I'll be deleting her number this week as no reply as of yet. Maybe should have waited till tomorrow to text as Wednesday's here are student club night so I assume she is out (or genuinely doesn't want to reply).

I'll prob text in a few days just calling her up on it (i like to do this on plenty of fish dating site when I pick up the hint their not too interested and quite often they try to qualify themselves and I end up going for a date). Will try the same tactic with her and if nothing I'm ready to next her.

Thanks for the tips though MrFluffs! Appreciate it 8)
Author:  madtiger [ Thu Jul 19, 2012 11:28 pm ]
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Don's send second text! If she want to answer, she will, it not.. leave her alone!
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