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| Author: | Smallson619 [ Tue Jun 12, 2012 3:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | FB conversation,did this go good or Am I delusional? |
Entirely this was long ass convo,Im gonna just write parts which actually could have any value. This girl friendzoned me like 4 months ago,after that I barely contacted her at all. Made out with her several times after friendzone-card when we were at same party.So I know physical attraction is there,aim of this convo was to know if she wants some of that without anything serious. I have read a bit PUA stuff lately since I don't wanna be typical AFC.I read 60s of challenge and liked his ideas. "Women love sex much as guys do",that is what im trying to offer here.Good time and sex. You see im typical AFC,im not running any techniques here.Just trying to keep conversation flirty all the time and just trying to be honest. Yesterday when this happened I was pretty satisfied,today I re-read it several times and I don't know anymore did it go good or bad? Am I just over-analyzing this now or did I really fuck this up? There is party on friday and im meeting this girl there,based on this convo guys,tell me if I have any chance or just forget this? I know this is long but hopefully somebody has spare time,cheers! Her: "Do you like the new foto I added!! haha ;D" (Photo with 6 chicks ranging from HB6 to HB9 with her included) Me: "Of course Her: ":D haha I knoow" Me: "I know, that you know Her: "I know,what you know .............. Me : "What you gonna do at friday? if nothing else our house is empty Her : "hahha ;DD really?" Me : "What X didn't tell you? Her : "I already got night-place for friday though ;D nah just kidding" What he really meant above I have no idea? Trying to make me jealous? Me : "Don't worry about night-place though,you can sleep with me.Oh I forgot,my bed is pretty narrow Her: "mmm...deal if we can't come up with anything else!" Me: "Hah just kidding Her : "Thats better!" I think this went pretty well? She showed pretty much zero resistance here. ........................... Me : "I was supposed to watch this movie but I can't. Girl you are taking all my attention!" Her : "damn Me : "don't worry I can finish it off later Her: "True ....... Then the most confusing part: Me: " You know I have thought about us" Her: "And?" Her : "Actually I have thought about us too" Me : "Tell me then? Her : "No you tell me first Me : "I understand why nothing serious wouldn't work with us.We don't need to have that though Her: "I kinda agree with you,im not ready for anything serious at this point of life,but you were really blue back then..I don't know if this makes any sense,if we both like each other such a different way,I don't wanna see you feel like shit because of me anymore" Me : "Chillout honey Her : "Ok good then Me : "I still want YOU but that doesn't mean we need to have anything serious between us ;D Im not regretting anything we did" Her : "Me neither Me : "Lets do that again sometime or was this all? ;D" Her : "Who knows |
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| Author: | Crix [ Tue Jun 12, 2012 8:16 am ] |
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Hmmmm,,,I had a felling you let her control the frame of the convo at a few points, and I dont think you should have said stuff like: "I still want YOU",,,,thats showing tooo much interest, You should have a mindset where you are the prize, and where she wants you,,,not "I want you,and I like you",,,,thats an AFC mindset But you shouldnt overanalyze this convo too much,,,you said it yourself you are meeting her at a party,,,so in my opinion you didnt fuck anything up too much,,,, Not sure what others think,,,,but I had a feeling as though the convo got a little heavy when you started talking about the past, and what you want from her,,,,maybe that will put too much pressure on her,and she might back off, or something worse,,,,so if I was you, I wouldnt bother so much about what happened, and I would try to focus on your current game. Good luck. |
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| Author: | xAfricana [ Fri Jun 15, 2012 2:09 am ] |
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They guy's right you are over analyzing everything. One of the weakest things to do to your game is analyze while its happening. It's hard enough for a recovering afc without you being in your head second guessing everything. Live in the moment, and when I say live, I mean live fully with no fear of consequence. Do not devote any of your energy doubting yourself. Analyze after. Like its a mission report. Change what you need to and move on. And even though there are tens of millions of dollars in the PUA industry now, don't ever think that you 'need' this shit. It's good shit, don't get me wrong, but remember that guys were getting laid since the ice age, before any of this existed. Think of highschool and college, and how many fine girls were dating completely trash guys, and you thought to yourself 'Why is she even with him? Even IM better than that douche." Point being: You don't have to be smooth to fuck chicks. You're already ahead of 90% of guys. Think about that. You're in the top 10% already. If douchey guys can get laid with no game other than 'not being shy' then you got this in the bag man. Stop getting in your own way. Just talk to the bitch cause bitches just want to be talked to. And eventually, your dick will find itself in her pussy. It's biology bro. |
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