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Author:  TheKermit [ Wed May 30, 2012 11:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Texting after a kiss-close
I know this is a long read but bear with me!

I met this HB8 at a friends party last saturday and after the party a few of us went to a club and I kiss closed and got her number.

Two days later I sent her a text and we were sending messages back and forth pretty much all day. I tried to use open loop questions to create a bit of intrigue as well as throwing in some innuendos here and there to keep some sexual tension. Very early on in the text she said she wasn't feeling so good in her stomach, hadn't been able to eat much at all etc. and she was talking about being stressed because she was starting a new job next week and I basicly said this:

Me: "I guess you just need to do something fun to get your mind off it :)" (I guess she thought I meant sex, which I didn't lol, was just going to ask her out)
HB: "hehe yeah probably, dont know if that would work:P I tend to overthink things tooo much :/:P" (to me it sounds like she's talking about sex)
Me: "I understand :P I just like to get out of the house and meet friends and have fun to get my mind off of things" (I acted like I didn't realize she thought I meant sex)
HB: "hehe yeah thats actually true ;)"
Me: "I've got a crazy idea but I don't know if you're adventurous enough for it and no I'm not talking about sex [name], you've gotta get your head out of the gutter! :P ;) just something fun to get your mind off of things :)"
HB: "Hahaha so funny:P"
Me: "Haha :P Have you tried 7D cinema?"
HB: "Haha yeaah its awesome! I screamed so loud when I went the last time, just like being on a rollercoaster haha :P"
HB: "just a little bit hehe"
Me: "haha yeah it's really awesome! I'd really like to try it again :) it's so realistic, are you free tomorrow? ;)"
HB: "Umm yeah maybe, if my stomach feels any better :/:P I actually saw both the movies, I just had to see the other one when I was done with the first one hehe"

It didn't sound like she was super excited about going with me and made it sound like she's seen both the available movies and thus didn't have to go again or something like that so I just ignored the fact that she said she wasn't sure and kept talking. For those of you who don't know 7D cinema is like a movie in 3D where you sit in a chair that moves with the movie and air blowing in your face and it's also like a computer game because you have a gun and you need to shoot bad guys on the screen or something like that but each movie is just like 5 minutes long so it's just something fun to do and not at all like a regular movie, so it should be something you could do again and again even though you've seen both the available movies.

This conversation occurred two days ago, I talked to her a little yesterday but she said she still had a pretty bad stomach ache and she was actually the one that sent the last text to me but I decided to freeze her out a bit and haven't heard from her today. But I was thinking about sending her a text tomorrow along the lines of "something made me think of you" or something like that and then from there try to set up a date.

She's leaving town sometime on june 5th-8th for her new job (she's not exactly sure when) so I'm wondering how I should approach this, when do you think I should send another text and ask her out? Should I rather call her? Should I suggest another activity for us to do together? I thought the 7D cinema thing was a good idea because it's fun and it's just like 5 minutes and it's at the mall so we could go window shopping afterwards and get an ice cream or something...

I'd appreciate the help guys!
Author:  TheKermit [ Wed May 30, 2012 11:32 pm ]
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Also I might add that her friend that was with us the night I met her kept telling me that I was "just her type" and was always telling me to make a move and kiss her even though I didn't think I'd kino escalated enough to be able to kiss her.

But I just said fuck it and grabbed her from behind on the dancefloor, turned her around, looked in her eyes for a second and kissed her... she kissed me back lol

Afterwards she told me something like "wow, you really just took charge and kissed me out of nowhere!" and it sounded like she really liked that haha

Also her older sister was there and she was telling me how much fun I was and that I should party with them more often, etc. so I was hoping that both her friend and her sister would tell the HB8 that they liked me and I was hoping that might perhaps have a sort of peer pressure effect and make her like me more... if that makes sense?
Author:  TheKermit [ Thu May 31, 2012 2:49 pm ]
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UPDATE:

I texted her today (didn't talk to her at all yesterday) and used the Coke or Lemonade text, broke it up into a few texts and she responded with "Lemonade:P" so I told her I liked Coke and we had to get a divorce and that she could have the car and the kids but I'd take the summerhouse in Spain and she responded with "nooo I'm taking the summerhouse ;)" and we've been going back and forth with this role playing for about and hour now lol.

You guys have any idea how and when I should ask her out? Should I just be direct or should I use the role play and say something like "we need to get together to discuss the divorce papers"... what do you guys think?
Author:  TheSeagull [ Thu May 31, 2012 3:22 pm ]
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if you still are in the middle of the role-play then definitely go for something related..

if the game is over, I would just be direct. have plans. "I am going to do X at time Y. join me"
Author:  TheKermit [ Thu May 31, 2012 3:38 pm ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
if you still are in the middle of the role-play then definitely go for something related..

if the game is over, I would just be direct. have plans. "I am going to do X at time Y. join me"
I was in the middle of role playing and this is pretty much what happened:

Me: "You are so sneaky!! I think we can still save this marriage, you just have to promise to be a good girl"
HB: "I can't promise anything ;)"
Me: "I don't think I can be married to a bad girl"
HB: "Then I think we need to sign the divorce papers;)"
Me: "Yeah I think we need to meet up and sign them ;) how about friday?"

And that was my last text that I sent about 30 minutes ago and no response, before this she had been responding within 5 minutes every time... wtf did I do wrong?

EDIT: After about an hour and a half she sent me this:

"haha is that so :P I was just going to send them to you in the mail... ;)"
Author:  TheSeagull [ Thu May 31, 2012 5:01 pm ]
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she doesn't seem overly interested in a meet up.
you could try pushing a little bit more, then probably freezing her out
I would reply along the lines of I think we deserve a better farewell than papers in the mail. Friday at X hour at Y place.

if she flakes, freeze out.
Author:  TheKermit [ Thu May 31, 2012 6:17 pm ]
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Quote:
she doesn't seem overly interested in a meet up.
you could try pushing a little bit more, then probably freezing her out
I would reply along the lines of I think we deserve a better farewell than papers in the mail. Friday at X hour at Y place.

if she flakes, freeze out.
Thanks for the reply, but since she was showing so much resistance I didn't think being that direct would be a good idea so this is what I said and what she replied:

Me: "Haha :) are you always this impersonal [name] ;) I think we need to end this marriage on a more personal note than through the mail :P"
HB: "Yeaaaah very impersonal and difficult haha :P"

She's playing so fucking hard to get... should I just freeze her out for a few days or what do you guys think I should do?

EDIT: I decided to end the conversation by sending her this text and then not talk to her for at least a few days:

Me: "Damn, you're so crazy ;) talk to you later weirdo... PS. I'm getting the custody over the kids ;)"

And she replied:

HB: "Hehe im really crazy :P but ohhh... ok then i get the sportscar and the yacht thats by the house in spain ;) and also the hot gardener that works for us you cant forget him haha :P"
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