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Author:  PSB85 [ Tue May 29, 2012 8:10 am ]
Post subject:  Girl is sending Mixed Signals!!
Hi Guys ,

I need help on this situation. Last weekend i was at a club , i met a girl while she was trying to bring her drunk friend to the ladies. Our eyes met and i offered her my hand which she grabbed. When her friend left us she asked me why did i followed her ? I replied that i don't wish to lie and i find her very sexy and i like her. She smiled and blushed. When her friend came out of the toilet after vomiting i gave her fren a candy, she was apprecitive of the gesture and whispered into my ear that i was very sweet. i held her hand and we walked throught the dance floor, just as we passed the door to go to the 2nd floor i pushed her against the wall and kissed her she did not resist and i guided her hand to rest on my chest. Just then she stopped and said that ppl are looking and we stopped. Once we reached upstairs she had to go to the VIP area she asked me for my hp and key in her digits. That was the last i see of her for that night.

To confirm that the number she gave me was real i text her the same night. Our sms exchanges is as follow

Me: Hi Chloe , this is my number sweet guy ( Shawn)
Me: Where are u now ?
Chloe: I am otw home.
Me: Ok See ya again :)
Chloe: Yeah! See u soon too! So sweet of U:) really appreciate it
Me: When can i see u again ?
Chloe: after 12 hours she replied "Have a good day ahead"
Me: i replied 16 hrs later " a b c d e f g h i j k l m n o p q r s t v w x y z"
Haved i missed something ??

Yes i've missed U.

I tried to call her last night but her hp was off, i tried again today there was a dial tone but she hung up.

As she is working as an air stewardess i suspect that she might be overseas henceforth she is unable to get back to me.

Can anyone tell me if i have blown this up ? What should i do now ?

Many thanks
Author:  hahajjjjj [ Tue May 29, 2012 12:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Hey
Hey

As far as you described the interaction with your Hb, it was good game. The problem you faced here is that when you pick up a girl in a club, she is in a completely different state than the day after. Even when you kiss-close a girl, it is not sure she will text you back the next day. therefore you should have tried going on an instant date with her right away. Instant date is where you and her leave the club the same night and go on an adventure or date. This could be to grab something to eat. The other thing is that you should have planed a thing you two could do while you were with her at the club so that there were definite plans.

On your texting, you should try some texting game cuz you seem so desperate or like all the other guys while texting. F.eks. when can i see you again. check out this link: 1-vt21175.html?start=0.

On the other hand, this girl really likes you and you will meet her again if you play a tight text game.
Author:  PSB85 [ Tue May 29, 2012 12:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Thanks
Hey hahajjj

Thanks for your reply.

I wanted to bring her to dance floor to continue kinoing however her fren was drunk so she had to send her fren home. I was very supirsed she text me the following day, wishing me Have a good day ahead.

I was thinking to myself this HB was hooked btw she's an 8.5 tall sexy nice curves.
I tried to play hard to get a little and text her only 16 hours later with the i missed u text.

As we are from an Asian society , and asian girls are more conservative , would it be too fast to F close her on the 2nd or 3rd date ?

Regards
Shawn
Author:  pumpington [ Tue May 29, 2012 1:11 pm ]
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ok, here are some things to consider,

how persistant were you?, did you attempt to handle the logistics with her friend at all?, offer her help in getting her friend home so you could continue with her?

also, how many things can you tell me about this girl that are not related to what she does for a living, what she did that night, and how she looks?

if you know nothing about her, there is a good chance you made absolutely no connection with her what so ever, so a followup is going to be a pain in the ass, the more she invests in you, the more you become a person to her instead of just a random fun makeout at the club, when a girl is horny and having fun in the moment, she will really be all over you in person, but that doesn't mean much, she can get a makeout at a club pretty much every time she goes if she wants, with very little to no effort if she is somewhat attractive, the next day when she wakes up and is not all aroused, that is not important to her and without the connection, you are just some random guy that she doesn't really know at all, but in that moment at that time (the night at the club), if you can handle the logistics, you don't need the connection in place so much, you just need to get the compliance and get her in a good place for sex to happen (but the greater the connection and the lower the asd, the less problems you will face with LMR)

now lastly, you came off needy as shit, you might have done a good job, but why so desperate?, you have to relax and give it some time, if she likes you enough she is not going to forget you just because you don't text her 20x in one day, wait 24 hours between missed texts, unless she has previously agreed to make plans with you and is not answering, then you have a reason to keep calling as her not giving you the courtesy to let you know what is going on is plain dis-respectful, but she didn't make any plans, no need to eagerly text her over and over

GOOD LUCK
Author:  PSB85 [ Tue May 29, 2012 1:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Thanks
Hi Pumpington

Appreciate that u took time to reply this msg.

The only things i know is she is 24 years of age , chinese, stays in the east.
Has been working as an air stewardess for Silkair for 1 year. During our short convo
she asked about my age ? What i do for a living ?

I did not have a chance to be persistent after we went upstairs she went with her frens
to the VIP area which i wasn't allowed in. She gave me her number after the brief kissed i
gave her. She text me the following day wishing me a good day, I responded to her text 16 hours later , i felt it did not show i was desperate.

I followed up with a phone call yesterday her hp was off. tried again today dial tone but got hung up.

With regards to logistics , i tried to called her on the night i got her hp, but she did not pick up. I text where she was she was already otw sending her fren and herself home.

Regards
Shawn
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