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Author:  freshbreath0909 [ Tue May 22, 2012 11:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Successful first date until I f'ed up texting after
This girl I have talked to occasionally hit my up out of the blue, said lets go see a movie. So she picks me up, we go grab a bottle of wine, sneak it into the movie (we saw cabin in the woods). We get very close and cuddly during the movie. She tells me my natural musk is intoxicating. She eventually leans over during the last 5 minutes of the movie and starts making out with me. After were at my house, I invite her inside but she has to get up early (legit) and says text me after we are done making out in the car. So this is where I fucked up.

me: text me when you get home
her: yes sir! :)
her: Home!0
me: nice work
her: Lol thank you
me: Good call hanging out tonight :p
her: Did i disappoint ?
me: Only if we don't hang out again
her: Lol oh yeah? :p
me: yeah: I mean if your that much of a tease..
her: Why you trying to have sex with me? (facepalm)
me: lol you said you were a tease (she had mentioned something about being a tease in the car)

I texted her the next day "did it get weird?" And she just replied back "Hm? lol" to which I got no reply after, I tried to change the subject.
3 days later I called her but it went to voicemail after about a ring.

I really would like to salvage this but I'm quite sure how. Salvaging with someone I haven't known very long has never been my strong suit. Appreciate any help guys.

Lesson learned: keep the texting to a minimum after a successful date. Avoid if possible.
Author:  picaro2 [ Tue May 22, 2012 11:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Successful first date until I f'ed up texting after
Quote:
her: Why you trying to have sex with me? (facepalm)
you: Of course, you are nice an cute, why wouldn't I want to have sex with you? BTW ... *here you change subject*
Author:  TheSeagull [ Wed May 23, 2012 1:49 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Successful first date until I f'ed up texting after
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Lesson learned: keep the texting to a minimum after a successful date. Avoid if possible.
Lesson learned: improve texting game. I have found that I could keep a girl interested, start building rapport, and at the same time keep the sexual vibe alive through texting for several days (logistics were adverse for a quick date: lots of work and two sleepovers..). if you play it right, texting can be powerful. don't give up just because you f**ed up once :wink:
Author:  detox75 [ Wed May 23, 2012 2:06 am ]
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I texted her the next day "did it get weird?
"

this was way DLV, no need to excuse your behavior especially when you did nothing wrong.

You probably appearing a little needy right now, a freeze out may be in order, more texting certainly isnt.
Author:  freshbreath0909 [ Wed May 23, 2012 2:14 am ]
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Thank you. That was what I needed to hear. I thought that was probably the case after I called her and got no answer.

I know my texting game is not the problem. I know why I fucked up. I was not ready for a shit test after that and I didn't control the frame.
Author:  Redlight [ Thu May 24, 2012 8:29 pm ]
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Thank you. That was what I needed to hear. I thought that was probably the case after I called her and got no answer.

I know my texting game is not the problem. I know why I fucked up. I was not ready for a shit test after that and I didn't control the frame.
I would have responded to her shit test along the lines of "Aren't you getting a little ahead of yourself? I need trust and comfort before we have sex"... This attitude always gets a laugh and turns the tables on her...
Author:  freshbreath0909 [ Thu May 24, 2012 9:54 pm ]
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I would have responded to her shit test along the lines of "Aren't you getting a little ahead of yourself? I need trust and comfort before we have sex"... This attitude always gets a laugh and turns the tables on her...
I agree. That's what I would usually say.. something along those lines. I'm just going to freeze-out for an undetermined amount of time. And in the mean time I have another date tomorrow night with another HB. Chyea.
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