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| Author: | imananimal [ Sun Dec 30, 2007 9:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | I have a dilemma. |
Ok. So, This girl i have met recently.. I know she has a boyfriend..but i think they are on the rocks..and based on the way she acts with me, shes either the shittiest girlfriend in the world...or just really really friendly and comfortable with touch. She invited me to come to the club tonight..and of course because i think she is gorgeous..(i havent gotten a chance to like properly get to know her yet..) I oblige and i show up with one of my bros. Well the whole night im lettin her have her space, talkin to her friends, mingling and not trying to just stay with her. The entire night when we are together tho, she is holding my hand, leading me around by my hand..just complete and blatent kino. Dancing up on me like her ass is a magnet to my piece. and like i am definitly attracted to her. Well at one point i go lets go dance, and i lead her away from her friends and we go like kinda up on stage but in the corner more i guess..and we are dancing and she pushes me up agains the wall and is just backin it up on me like the world is gonna end...so Im thinking to myself "I want to kiss this girl sooo bad" So at one point i turn her around and we are dancing face to face..and we are looking at each other..and i put my hand on the back of her neck, and we kiss...for a few seconds..then she pulls back and our lips are like centimeters away and i really thought we were going to continue kissing it was sexual tension to the max for a few seconds..but then she shakes her head.. and pulls away and keeps dancing.. I just played it off like it never happend and kept dancing...Anyways we kept kinoing like crazy for the next like 10 minutes tt was ridicoulous....and then her friends got kicked out andwe all left.. My thing is like...if shes got a boyfriend....should i even bother? Is this the type of girl i want to get involved with if shes flirting hardcore with guys like myself and then going back to her boyfriend acting like nothing and givin it up to him? of course theres the chance that we will hook up anyways..or that she will break up with him...but what are the chances. Right now im on a real high because shes definitly an HB9.5 in my book....but as of now its just looks i think..she hasnt done anything that shows me shes annoying but at the same time i dont know much about her. Idk just some things that are going through my mind i guess. |
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| Author: | PrettyBoy41 [ Mon Dec 31, 2007 9:28 am ] |
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you are giving her too much power man. now it may be that her bf is possesive and so she is looking for a passive guys to spend time with to make up for it, but if you really want her to be attracted to for more then just a cute little escape from her bf, then you need to display to her that you are masculine enough to take charge. become the life of the party man, DHV, lead her around, dont let her lead. never assume anything is forbidden. if you think things are going well enough to k-close, go for it, dont let the bf thing daunt you. if she likes you, she likes you, no matter what may be in her way. |
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| Author: | imananimal [ Thu Jan 03, 2008 4:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Sounds Good. |
Yes your right, those are all the right things that I should be doing. I mean i went for the K-close it just only semi-worked. My problem that night was, i would try and get her alone to talk or whatever, because i know once we started talking things would be straight, but i couldnt get her alone that night. Her friends were always with her, so i would talk to her friends and bust on them or just go off and do my own thing and chill with other people i knew. But when i would try to get her alone there would be no place to sit...so instead we'd end up dancing again. I called her on new years eve, around mid-day. I didnt leave a message i just hung up. No Call back, you guys think i blew it? Im learning from my mistakes i think, and if the oppurtunity comes again it will be different. My biggest problem is when i really like a girl..i turn into a big pussy and i forget all ive learned about women. Its like I cant turn on my alpha male attitude or personality when i Really like the girl. Its only when I dont give a shit about things happening with the girl that its easy. Youd think that would be an easy solution....just dont care, but its easier said than done. |
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| Author: | elohim [ Sat Jan 19, 2008 8:05 am ] |
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I understand where your coming with its easier said then done, but if you want this girl away from her boyfriend you got to be mysterious man its the only way, but when you do it make sure she has fun with you kinda make it seem like she's missing the big picture with you cause she has the boyfriend she''ll want you more that way she'll get curious and when she get curious a girl with a boyfriend will forget him. thats from my experience I don't know if I've explained this right and I know this is my first reply but thats how that situation works well I think |
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| Author: | Mr. Fantastic [ Sat Jan 26, 2008 12:57 am ] |
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I wouldn't worry about the BF too much. Most quality women will have them. If you limit yourself to girls that are truly single every venue would be target poor. I won't mess with a girl that's a buddy's GF, but if I don't know the dude... Fair Game. 
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