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| Author: | specialwilbon [ Wed Dec 26, 2007 6:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | how do i get my best friend to go out with me |
my problem is that iv been friends with this polish girl for about 4 months now and we hav come very close to each another. i fancy her so much but she has a boyfriend who lives about 100 mile away from us. she sees her boyfriend maybe once a month. i can tell she finds me attractive but im not shore she will finish her boyfriend and start seeing me becuase they have been togehter on and of for about 4 years and also he is polish like her. but at the same time i dont think her boyfriend truely likes her becuase he always make her upset and if she ask him does he love her she gets no reply. i no she like my company becuase she always texts me when she not with her boyfriend and she asked me go poland in a coupl of weeks with her ( skiing ). when ever she sees me she cant stop smiling and she is always linking my arms and pinching my cheeks. i dont no what to do becuase i dont want risk losing her as a friend becuase i enjoy been with her, but i like her that much that i think it would be rong for her not to no how i feel. i would be very happy with any help that i could get xxx |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Wed Dec 26, 2007 6:19 pm ] |
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Here is the thing, if you don't want to risk loosing a friend you aren't going to be able to get out of the Let's Just Be Friends Zone or (LJBF). You have to be willing to build attraction and kino escalate to see if anything is there at risk of being rejected and dealing with Last Minute Resistence. My advice to you is keep her as a friend and move on! Check out this post one-itis-one-itis-one-itis-help-vt13368.html?highlight= |
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| Author: | The Wild One [ Wed Dec 26, 2007 6:50 pm ] |
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I would practice gaming other girls this seems like a stupid move to break this friendship. You have more to lose than gain from it, and although you may think romance the reality is different. Practice with other girls, and keep her as a good friend. |
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| Author: | specialwilbon [ Wed Dec 26, 2007 6:50 pm ] |
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see thats what im thinking i should do, if shes a real friend then if thats all that she wants then telling her that i love her to bits shouldnt change anything. i no she fancys me and if she didnt have a boyfriend then i would have no problem asking her out. |
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| Author: | Akumara [ Sun Dec 30, 2007 1:31 am ] |
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Another thing you can do is game other girls infront of her.....and see her reaction. If she becomes jealous, she will realize that she wants you as more than a friend, and hopefully you can use that to your advantage. Even talking about other girls may work and make her feel new emotions about you brought on by jealously. |
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| Author: | The Wild One [ Mon Dec 31, 2007 3:06 am ] |
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If you move it to fast beyond friendship you risk losing everything because she may get angry with you for pushing her into that situation. |
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| Author: | TrojanMan88 [ Wed Jan 02, 2008 6:49 pm ] |
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lOL you have to kino escalate and work on attraction. SCREW comfort. |
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| Author: | minijag [ Tue Jan 15, 2008 7:22 am ] |
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How old are you? Based on your quality of english, it makes it seem like you are still in school. I know our public school system has failed many so I'm going to say, as high as highschool is very possible. I would ignore the comments about losing/gaining friendship or whatnot with this girl. It's important to take risks like these while you are young. The reason why these guys are saying this is a risk because at 25 or 30, ruining a great friendship is a pretty awful thing to do. Because basically after college and whatnot, you don't really make any 'great' friends anymore. Friends are so hard to come by. If you are in school I would go for it. I would use the 'spontaneous kiss close routine' that i just read about in a different post. Just ask her the most spontaneous thing she's ever done. Neg her about not being spontaenous, say okay well close your eyes right now. Then just a quick kiss on the lips. Make sure your lips aren't chapped or anything. Seriously, you don't even need to do any game on her. Theres no gaming, she already knows you, theres no amount of any game that can reverse 4 months of anything. Just grow a pair, kiss her. After that she'll be like WTF. Tell her that you like her. She'll get confused, she'll have to make a decision, CONCIOUSLY to either break up with her boyfriend or explore her feelings for you... If she doesn't have a relationship with you. You guys can still be friends, believe me. Telling someone they you like them isn't the end of a friendship, it just changes things a little bit. It sounds like you really like this girl. Just do it. Do it the next time you see her. |
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| Author: | xxIcexx [ Tue Jan 15, 2008 8:18 am ] |
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honestly if i were in your shoes, i would be more than content with having her as a friend than risk losing her just to see what it would be like in the sack if she is really good looking, millions of men would dream about having such a close female friend that would take a vacation with them...you never know though, see if she has any friends you might be interested in or if there is any she knows that would be compatible with you...maybe and im just saying maybe if shes sees you moving towards some type of relationship with her friend or just a good old FB, she might get a little jealous and you can see where it goes from there but i def wouldnt risk losing her as a friend |
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| Author: | relentless1 [ Tue Jan 15, 2008 8:30 am ] |
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i would say, keep her as a friend and maybe use her so she can help you game other girls. if you guys are really good friends and you start dating, once you guys break up, it will never be the same. my rule that i use is never date your good friends, never date your close friends's ex, and never date your close friend's sister. everything else is fair game. hope this helps |
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| Author: | Ezo [ Tue Jan 15, 2008 9:49 am ] |
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Well, of course telling her you love her will scare her. Her only good male friend she doesnt feel threatened by, screwing everything up. Practice on other girls, mayber she will start giving you IOIs but until then, dont game her. Just an observation, so many guys go into PUA just to catch that one girl. PUA is not about that. PUA is about getting a lot of girls and then choose among them... Ezo |
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| Author: | slight [ Thu Jan 17, 2008 10:57 am ] |
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rohypnol.... She can be your friend and your lover without her even knowing. |
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