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| Author: | Andrasol [ Sat Apr 14, 2012 5:40 pm ] |
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ok i'm a bit confused. i used to have a crush on a girl round october last year but i f'ed up (to needy, did k-close her though). i froze her out for 2 months, re-engaged convo and managed to f-close her 2 times . yet again ... feelings made me get needy and ... rinse and repeat :p again a small freeze out (3 weeks) and boom f-close again after using tiramisu as an excuse to come over. the thing is... since the last f-close i'm just not letting my feelings interfere and just play it cool, even mentioned other girls and she only got more and more atracted ( it bawfeled me to be honest). But now she is the one texting me "when she'll see me again... does this mean she want's to see me ( eg , get to know me, go for a snack,...) or is this a regular booty call? both are fine since i'm not letting the heart control the mind again. yet i need to know because a) if she want's to get to know me better i could still be interested in somthing long term but i won't act on those feelings untill i'm sure. i have to game a little different then when she wants: b) just sex :p or am i wrong and should i just go on with gaming like i was (lots of push pull/ cocky funny) in any of both the situations? |
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| Author: | Mitsos-95 [ Sat Apr 14, 2012 6:10 pm ] |
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I believe that your game so far has get to be necessary to her. So i think it's b)just sex , you lucky.... |
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| Author: | Andrasol [ Sun Apr 15, 2012 2:52 pm ] |
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Quote: I believe that your game so far has get to be necessary to her. So i think it's b)just sex , you lucky....
thx for the imput ! any1 else who can iluminate me?*bump |
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| Author: | Gamble49 [ Mon Apr 16, 2012 6:29 pm ] |
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Andrasol, This is actually more complex than what GreekPUA said, your game seems to be working on her and that's why you f-closed. When you say she texts you and you don't know whether it's just for sex or to get to know you, it actually depends on a bunch of things. If I were you I would focus more on how she treats you when you go see her, I mean does she jump to you as soon as you get there or do you have to work for it? If she jumps over you like a panther then she is just interested in sex but if you can actually maintain a good conversation and keep the energy up then you might be in for a relationship. I do believe you can turn it around the way you want it to be though it's all up to you mate. Gamble |
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| Author: | Andrasol [ Tue Apr 17, 2012 1:01 pm ] |
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Quote: Andrasol,
she tries to make me work for it :p which i did untill my last freeze out... now when she tries to make me work for it i just mindfuck her xD
This is actually more complex than what GreekPUA said, your game seems to be working on her and that's why you f-closed. When you say she texts you and you don't know whether it's just for sex or to get to know you, it actually depends on a bunch of things. If I were you I would focus more on how she treats you when you go see her, I mean does she jump to you as soon as you get there or do you have to work for it? If she jumps over you like a panther then she is just interested in sex but if you can actually maintain a good conversation and keep the energy up then you might be in for a relationship. I do believe you can turn it around the way you want it to be though it's all up to you mate. Gamble |
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