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Author:  joseph29 [ Fri Apr 13, 2012 5:32 am ]
Post subject:  I closed but am gettting MADD resistance now?
Story short... Right now in my career I'm working 90 hrs a week on some great opportunities. She goes to school and has 2 jobs... it's perfect.

Problem is she just got out of a 3 year shitty relationship. We flirted hardcore for a while it took some time to sleep with her. And we slept together twice over the span of 2 weeks. But all the sudden she's completely closed off to it which has never ever happened to me. Usually once its on its on. So I was thinking I wasn't performing great. Finally one night I give her a massage and she passes out and then she cuddles with me and I get kinda pissed and storm out, like WTF are we doing here what is this I'm not just some cuddle buddy? Was a complete asshole it was noooooo goodie.

Turns out she bragged to her friend about the sex and had 3 orgasms each time. And then she got black out drunk and admitted to me (she has been very closed off about everything) that she really likes me a lot, too much and the sex is great and she's moving cross country in 3 months. And that she just got out of a terrible relationship and she's got her walls up and she knows she'll fall in love with me if we keep having sex....

FUCK, problem is I like her a lot to and thats hard to find. And I want to I ride this thing out hardcore go balls to the wall fuck the pain that could happen in 3 months. You learn from these things. Hung out again tonight (she calls me everyday she txts me all day) we went to dinner and then she was like I'm really tired I'm just gonna go to sleep (like I said we DO both work 100 hrs a week so she gets legit tired). But this is starting to really frustrate me, she's got every excuse in the book and really that pussy is amazing I'm not gonna lie.

I'm trying to figure out if this is a lost cause, or if she's just playing me, or if I should cut her off or maybe just communicate about how it's frustrating me... Never been in a situation like this. It is delicate. But usually once I have sex once or twice we're having tons and tons of sex by now. Right now with my job it's not as easy as "just find another girl" she's one of the few that gets that I work so much cause she does too. And fuck it I like her.
Author:  CaptainJackHarkness [ Fri Apr 13, 2012 9:40 am ]
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I feel for you here. Had a similar situation with a girl that was moving, and at first I thought she was full of shit but it was very obvious it was a serious move that she'd been planning. I don't really see any other choice but to ...well....find a girl that's not looking for a relationship.

Kind of seems like you had a relationship of convenience...she was working a lot, you were working a lot, but when you two met you pretty much just had sex (aside from a few social dinner pleasantries). To be honest, as a man, you should move on...but also that sexual convenience is keeping you strung to her. Ask yourself who you "Really like" here...is it her or that pussy that don't lie :P.

Aye....there's the rub :lol:
Author:  keith666555 [ Fri Apr 13, 2012 10:15 am ]
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Like what style says; go out and fuck 12 more girls and afterward see if that flower is so delicate. I mean your head over heals right now. Its obvious she likes the sex yes but she seems to be a very non-sexual person. The opposite of you. Ide pursue other women.
Author:  joseph29 [ Sun Apr 15, 2012 10:25 pm ]
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Last night we had drinks I was dropping her off she started making out with me I thought she was going to suck my face off. I've never been kissed so hard in my life. Than she said no no no. Than she started kissing me again. Than she said no no I can't. If we have sex again emotions will get in the way and then your going to get mad at me again and then we're going to ruin this friendship I can't do that. And then she got out of the car. I just left went to bar was partying with other girls got some number doing my thing tryna just forget about it. She texted me afterwards "good ol buddy ol pal" I ignored it.

ichatted her today and at one point said "I'm never kissing you again ever ever ever ever" she said "don't lie to yourself"

WTF is going on dude this is some twilight zone shit for real. Can we just fuck again already jesus christ. We both want to have sex sex makes us happier it's so easy and I'M TELLIN YOU THAT PUSSY MAN...... :x

And yes I do like her. And I much prefer to have sex with someone I like than just some random 12 chicks like the hoochies I met last night. It is what it is.

So I'm saying, I will move on and hook up with other girls. But if I want to hit this again do I

A) Cut her off, make her see she'll lose me, ignore phone calls and texts for a while while I got out with other chicks.
B)Continue being her friend but not push for anything, maybe even take the side of yes we should just be friends... and just let the sexual tension boil over by being subtle
C) Be more aggressive with her, like just walking with her and than push her against the wall and start making out with her?

I'm going to focus on other girls but I would diefinately like to hit this again. Any suggestions?
Author:  Samurai209 [ Mon Apr 16, 2012 1:53 am ]
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My advice on this is just have fun while it lasts. 3 months is a long time and a lot can change. If you guys like each other then why not enjoy the time you do have. If things do get really heated and love really does start, then cross that bridge when you come to it. Its not worth passing up on something good for something that may go wrong in the future.
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