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| Author: | thomson653 [ Tue Apr 10, 2012 7:49 pm ] |
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I met a girl recently who lives quite far away .... anyhow after some texting etc we started to speak on the phone and disscussed meeting up etc . then on the eve i was meant to meet her i had a text saying she had taken ill and couldnt make it so she would call me the next day ... well when i woke up and just said " hope your ok " then i got a reply midday saying "in so much pain" i then said " feel better soon " i never had one reply from this text and this was monday morning and still havent heard anything . what do you guys think i should do ? in my heart of hearts i think the illness was made up to be honest |
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| Author: | thomson653 [ Wed Apr 11, 2012 7:35 pm ] |
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can anyone help ? was thinking about texting her sometime this week but dont know what to say ? |
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| Author: | Musterion [ Wed Apr 11, 2012 7:51 pm ] |
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Monday was only 2 days ago dude, relax. Don't rush yourself into sending a pointless text just because you miss speaking to her. Leave it a couple of days and make her wonder "Why hasn't he text me again since monday? Isn't he worried about how I'm feeling?" and all that crap. If she hasn't reinitiated by the weekend, send her a text. |
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| Author: | thomson653 [ Wed Apr 11, 2012 9:14 pm ] |
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you think i should wait till next week man ?? if she texts me what should i do , wait a day to reply ? i just dont want to leave it to late thats all i cant understand it really ... she was the one who got my number , started texting me loads , wanted to meet up etc then all of a sudden she cancled and i havent heard from her since . |
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| Author: | Musterion [ Wed Apr 11, 2012 11:15 pm ] |
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If she texts you, your reply depends on what she texts you (both what you say and how long you wait, or if you even reply at all). If she's that interested she will text you. When I say "by the weekend" I mean if say on saturday you haven't heard from her, maybe send a text. Girls like to play these little games sometimes to test us, you know "Let's see what happens if I don't text him for a couple days". But you can do the same to them. I'll give you a lengthy example of this kinda thing: A girl I've been texting for a week or so from POF has flaked a couple of times when I've suggested hanging out. Yesterday after talking about it and her kinda blowing it off though still instantly replying she took like 3/4 hours to reply to my last text with just a "lol" and a load of fluff that had nothing to do with anything. I just flat out didn't respond at all, today she texts me "Hey pumpkin! You okay? x" this is telling me that she is interested but is flaking due to us only fluffing around the idea. So after a little fluff talk about what we'd been up to today I brought up the subject again, and again she started trying to avoid the topic, so I sent her this "Let's be serious here And after all her fluffing about saying "you gotta convince me you're worth it" and shit like that earlier on, she text back to that simply "Agreed So her words were saying she's not sure about hanging out, she might not be that interested in me etc, however her actions after my freeze-out signalled otherwise (I should note that I've done quite a few mini freeze-outs with this girl over instant messenger aswell, making her re-initiate if she gives a boring or pointless reply to something, she complied everytime). So after witnessing this behaviour from her several times I realised that she's just indecisive - as was I in a way - and it was up to me to just come out and say 'this is how it is'. And with that text I sent I think a key part of it was saying "I don't play games" which is subtly hinting that I'm not gonna stand anymore flaking. |
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| Author: | thomson653 [ Thu Apr 12, 2012 6:15 am ] |
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This is where I met this girl ... She started talking to me etc . I just couldn't believe it when she stopped talking altogether because for about a week we've spoke loads and she kept saying she wanted to meet me etc . I did tell her on the phone that I normally just delete someone's number if I think they are messing me about so maybe she's testing me? If I do text her do I just go in light hearted or do I say look what's going on here type of thing ? |
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| Author: | keps1 [ Fri Apr 13, 2012 3:43 pm ] |
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I am kind of in the same boat, but the freeze outs arent working |
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