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Author:  Affiliation [ Sun Apr 08, 2012 8:57 am ]
Post subject:  Need comments on a situation
hey guys, just need your advice on a situation

Long story short

met a girl, K - closed her and got her number
Then i asked her for a date on a Saturday, which she agreed but she texted me on the day and wanted to reschedule it, and we went out on the Sunday (which i didn't close at all)
then i called her again for a 2nd date and she said she would get back to me, which she did and said she was free on the weekend. i suggested the Saturday, but we agreed on the Sunday - since she was busy.

we texted throughout the Saturday (general conversation - i know i fucked up on this one as well ... ) but on the Sunday (3 hours before we go), i texted her:

me: hey i'll pick you up later yeah?
her: yeah around what time
me: around 8?
her: yeah alright

then like 5 - 10 minutes later she texts and says
"hey turns out i can't make it i have to hang with family :("
this is the second time that she bails out and i just replied with
"oh ok, dw about it then" - kind of to not look too needy/desperate

is she not interested? and should i just move on or does she sound legit?
thanks
Author:  Hold [ Sun Apr 08, 2012 11:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Need comments on a situation
Quote:
hey guys, just need your advice on a situation

Long story short

met a girl, K - closed her and got her number
Then i asked her for a date on a Saturday, which she agreed but she texted me on the day and wanted to reschedule it, and we went out on the Sunday (which i didn't close at all)
then i called her again for a 2nd date and she said she would get back to me, which she did and said she was free on the weekend. i suggested the Saturday, but we agreed on the Sunday - since she was busy.

we texted throughout the Saturday (general conversation - i know i fucked up on this one as well ... ) but on the Sunday (3 hours before we go), i texted her:

me: hey i'll pick you up later yeah?
her: yeah around what time
me: around 8?
her: yeah alright

then like 5 - 10 minutes later she texts and says
"hey turns out i can't make it i have to hang with family :("
this is the second time that she bails out and i just replied with
"oh ok, dw about it then" - kind of to not look too needy/desperate

is she not interested? and should i just move on or does she sound legit?
thanks
Once could just as easily be genuine as not interested. Twice could be coincidence or bad luck. After three times though, I'd suggest giving this girl some serious consideration. Is she really worth putting your plans on hold if she's just gonna bail every time?
Author:  p11x [ Sun Apr 08, 2012 12:21 pm ]
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Agreed. Could be genuine, try setting up another date.
Author:  Affiliation [ Sun Apr 08, 2012 12:51 pm ]
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yeah, but i know where i failed/stuffed up. it was due to my text game - too much texting throughout and not enough escalation (kino/k-closing etc on the date)

But as you said it could all be genuine and i read it wrong, should i continue initiating? or let her chase for once?

haha, im new to PUA but i am quickly learning so yeah

thanks for the comments though!

edit: i'm kind of really interested in this chick so yeah was hoping to make this work, but if it's all for it then i'll just cut her and move on
Author:  Affiliation [ Mon Apr 09, 2012 5:00 am ]
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C'mon PUA's!

just need a little help here!
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Mon Apr 09, 2012 5:16 am ]
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On your date you didn't even kiss her. You moved backward in the sarge, where you should have been escalating and making things happen. You failed to lock in interest and revealed yourself as a pussy.

Sorry bro. I would go NC on this one and contact her in a month.
Author:  Affiliation [ Mon Apr 09, 2012 7:53 am ]
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yeah thanks! i was thinking of doing this as well and just game other women in the meantime.
But assuming she doesn't initiate back within the month, what do i say to her after a month?
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Mon Apr 09, 2012 8:01 am ]
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Quote:
yeah thanks! i was thinking of doing this as well and just game other women in the meantime.
But assuming she doesn't initiate back within the month, what do i say to her after a month?
Don't worry about it. That's far away.
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