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Author:  bigpoppaa [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 2:04 am ]
Post subject:  Did I overgame?
Hey everybody. So me and this girl have been hooking up the past couple weeks and things have gotten pretty serious (hanging out a lot, lots of texting, etc). Today we were texting and then I think I fucked up:

me: I'm horny let's kick it today ;)

her: I'm going to the gym at 3. maybe after that?

me: hmmm maybe

her: hahaha really with the maybes? Your the horny one, remember that!

me: haha and you might just be lucky enough to get to help me with that ;)

her: you MIGHT be lucky enough to get my help, instead of your hand. I don't want to spoil you too often ;p

me: haha I guess I'll have to leave that up to someone else then won't I?

her: (6 hours later) Guess so


So, I need some help here. Was I too cocky? and should I text her back or just wait it out and see if she texts me again?
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 2:27 am ]
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Yeah, you shouldn't have brought in another girl. It was fine until there.

Late tonight I'd send, "Well I spent all day telling girls I was horny and needed help. It didnt go so great, so I think you might be someone special ;)"
Author:  bigpoppaa [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 3:03 am ]
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But wouldn't that give her the upper hand and show I don't have any other options?
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 4:50 am ]
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But wouldn't that give her the upper hand and show I don't have any other options?
You're overthinking this.

It wouldn't say anything about you having other options. You waited a long time before texting her back. You joked about flirting with other girls. It says nothing about your other options, since it wasn't a serious text.

Yes, it gives her the upper hand. But its cute and funny and gets her to agree to help you with your horniness.

If she were to misuse her upper hand, let's say she responded: "I am special! But its too late now, you lost your chance."

You answer: "*sigh* I guess its back to the streets then. You would have loved it when I returned the favor... Oh well!"
Author:  bigpoppaa [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 7:05 am ]
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True. Thanks for your help man, much appreciated
Author:  bigpoppaa [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 2:07 pm ]
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So I took your advice and she said "Took you long enough to realize that..." What's a good response to this?
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 3:15 pm ]
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So I took your advice and she said "Took you long enough to realize that..." What's a good response to this?
No response.

Wait a couple days and ask her out again.
Author:  "The Gift" [ Wed Apr 04, 2012 4:09 pm ]
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So I took your advice and she said "Took you long enough to realize that..." What's a good response to this?
Can't just ask for help everytime she replies, get used to just interacting and escalating the conversation to your goal.

But, maybe something like. "Of course I realised it, I just took my time. We all know, anticipation is key."
Author:  AdamThomas [ Thu Apr 05, 2012 8:20 pm ]
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I think you've probably fucked this one up now. Don't be awkward just to show "non-neediness" or to play silly power games - what's more important? That you have all the "power" in the interaction (whatever that means)? Or that you fuck her? When she said she could meet you after 3 you should have just agreed and met her after 3 and fucked her.
Author:  bigpoppaa [ Fri Apr 06, 2012 7:51 am ]
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I think you've probably fucked this one up now. Don't be awkward just to show "non-neediness" or to play silly power games - what's more important? That you have all the "power" in the interaction (whatever that means)? Or that you fuck her? When she said she could meet you after 3 you should have just agreed and met her after 3 and fucked her.
Exactly. Guess I got too caught up with trying to be alpha and whatnot. Luckily I didn't completely fuck myself and she still wants to hang out. Thanks for the advice guys
Author:  AdamThomas [ Mon Apr 09, 2012 1:15 pm ]
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I think you've probably fucked this one up now. Don't be awkward just to show "non-neediness" or to play silly power games - what's more important? That you have all the "power" in the interaction (whatever that means)? Or that you fuck her? When she said she could meet you after 3 you should have just agreed and met her after 3 and fucked her.
Exactly. Guess I got too caught up with trying to be alpha and whatnot. Luckily I didn't completely fuck myself and she still wants to hang out. Thanks for the advice guys
Yeah, it's pointless. I used to make the same mistake all the time haha.
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