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Author:  Leto [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 1:49 am ]
Post subject:  What to do next? Any advise would be much appreciated!!

Hey guys, could do with some advise on what to do next....

Myself and a very attractive, amazingly interesting and intelligent girl have come to meet through friends, i had already noticed her about on nights out and she'd definitely noticed me checking her out.
So one night we meet at my mates house and hit it off really well. i started to see this particular mate a lot more, as i seemed to stand a good chance of seeing her and after a while I decide to ask her out for a drink.

It goes well, she turns up and we talk none stop the whole time. I mean there was no awkward moment of silence, again we hit it off really well and it was just the two of us this time. I'll say at this point that i'm really nervous when it comes to physical contact, its fine when i break the ice but it seems for me the ice is fucking granite sometimes.....and it almost seems like the less i like them the easier it is?!

So we're sat there having this amazing conversation, get her back to my place and we're again having a great chat but I've still hardly even touched her, this is mainly because the conversation isn't charged if you get my meaning? We have a zoot and both confess to being quite stoned after that......... and she ends up suggesting we go around a mates, which i really couldnt not agree to as it seemed she was going to go anyway...where we get separated watching a film, both of us sat by ourselves both seemingly having a good time....but nowhere near a good a time as before ( in my opinion at least ) as people peel off during the night she then decides to go home. Now, she gave me a lift there from my place, but didnt offer me a lift home and just left me there....! I was like err Wtf?! This really spun me out after we'd had a great night mostly.

What should i have done? What should i do next? I'm typing this as i've got home from said mates house so i'm a little intoxicated so sorry for the rambling!

Author:  smokeit [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 3:58 am ]
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Waiting for the conversation to be charged? I've noticed best kisses are when we are talking about random as bullshit. Or no conversation at all. Dude you did not escalate, you did not behave like an ALPHA. You should have kino'd it up, get her wet, then she would have taken you for a ride :)

Cut your losses.

Author:  Leto [ Mon Mar 19, 2012 8:44 am ]
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Lol Ok, how do you suggest handling the next move then? Should I text her, call her? Any suggestions with escalating over text a bit inbetween dates?

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