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| Author: | phaseshift [ Thu Mar 15, 2012 4:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Aiming for Day 2 |
So here is the situation: First date with this HA9 (hot asian) girl I met through a friend. First date happened about 3 weeks (my bad mistake, went on way to long...5 hours, lunch and high tea), hugged her at end of date. The week after (3 days later) I asked her out to Dinner, but that didn't fly. So she said she was more comfortable with coffee. A couple days later, called her, talked for about 45 minutes, and she was going on vacation in Asia the next day. I emailed her on places to visit (since i had a friend who has been to Asia, and she went to where she was going). She replied thanks, i emailed a couple days later to followup, replied with a change of plans on where she was going, I emailed a few days later to no reply. Called her twice over the course of the 2 weeks, left voicemail. Then I stopped calling. Came back 3 days ago. I called her yesterday, and she didn't pick up, but texted me a few hours later, saying "sorry, missed your call asking what's up?" Seriously, not sure what she wants, but should I bother trying to pursue any further? We are both Asian. But she can't chased by quite a few guys from what know. I am guessing maybe we are in friends zone? Not sure, but should I act further? How should I respond to the text? |
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| Author: | smokeit [ Thu Mar 15, 2012 4:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Aiming for Day 2 |
Quote: my bad mistake, went on way to long...5 hours, lunch and high tea), hugged her at end of date.
You did not build enough attraction. You should have gone for the kiss close, not a hug (LJBF)
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| Author: | *FlaiR* [ Thu Mar 15, 2012 5:58 pm ] |
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Awfull rookie mistakes. I can smell and feel your neediness across my computer. She is clearly not investing in you No investment = no attraction No attraction means only friends. Stop running around like a puppy dog after her ass..sending e-mails, calling, sending texts..this is way too much dude. Your 5 hour date...you need to fucking sexually escalate. You cannot have a 5h date with a girl and not be able to escalate in order to at least give her a kiss. Also, did you qualify? I bet you didn't. Qualification is used to build investment from her in your interaction. A lot of mistakes you did. You lost it..move on |
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| Author: | smokeit [ Fri Mar 16, 2012 12:03 am ] |
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Quote: Awfull rookie mistakes. I can smell and feel your neediness across my computer. She is clearly not investing in you
Yee
No investment = no attraction No attraction means only friends. Stop running around like a puppy dog after her ass..sending e-mails, calling, sending texts..this is way too much dude. Your 5 hour date...you need to fucking sexually escalate. You cannot have a 5h date with a girl and not be able to escalate in order to at least give her a kiss. Also, did you qualify? I bet you didn't. Qualification is used to build investment from her in your interaction. A lot of mistakes you did. You lost it..move on |
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| Author: | phaseshift [ Fri Mar 16, 2012 5:31 am ] |
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thanks guys, yeah, I'm a bit rusty, I just came off a pretty long relationship. Gotta get back into it. I got a lot of nice guy feedback from a lot of friends. The thing is I think this girl has had a abusive relationship (after being engaged) so I didn't know how best to approach it. Should knowing that impact how I should have approached it? |
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