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Author:  MrHide [ Sat Mar 10, 2012 2:50 am ]
Post subject:  2nd date screw up! friendzoned?

Hi guys i went out with a girl for the first date, she flaked when i tried the kiss close but we kept talking after while and she told me to see eachother again.

On the second date she gave me iois to kiss her, she wwas biting her lips, dragging me to some hidden places, etc but i didn't make any move, i wasn't in the mood and we finished the date without any attempt of me to kiss her.

Does this mean i got friendzoned? or can a third date fix that? I hope you guys can tell me? i dont have alot of K-close experiences and i still have lack of confidence.

Thanks

Author:  Theodiscus [ Sat Mar 10, 2012 2:54 am ]
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Well shit man, just go for it! Have you tried at all? If not do one of the two:


1) Play with her hair, if she is cool with it smell her hair. If still good, smell her neck a bit, get her to face you, make eye contact and kiss her. If she doesn't want it she would have stopped you before the kiss attempt.

2) When you hit a halt in the conversation, look at her dead in the eyes and slowly lean forward, if she doesn't back out after 3 seconds kiss her.

Author:  MrHide [ Sat Mar 10, 2012 2:59 am ]
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I'm planning to go for it on a third date! i Don't know if its too late...Like if a Girl gives you IOIs on the second date and you didnt do shit, will she suppose that you are gay and friendzone you? or just give her more apetite to get you.

Author:  chazman0426 [ Sat Mar 10, 2012 5:36 am ]
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If you don't make a move yes you will get friendzoned. You don't know for sure it is too late. Tell her to meet you somewhere out again and this time make the move. If she flakes or declines just leave her be and learn to escalate next time.

Author:  Sonicvega [ Sat Mar 10, 2012 5:42 am ]
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Your still there but your window will close quickly. She likes you now but if you let it linger too long its zoned time. Use a lot of touch escalation. wipe hair away from her face . have a staring contest. whisper something in her ear as you do brush your lips against hers when you pull away. I guess what im trying to say is pull the trigger.

Author:  MrHide [ Sat Mar 10, 2012 12:59 pm ]
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Well guys i can't meet her until next friday, It means still a whole week to wait, should i call her in that period? because we don't talk on facebook or msn so actually when should i call her to get a that third date?

Author:  Sonicvega [ Sat Mar 10, 2012 4:53 pm ]
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I typically never call them dates. I would have a plan as to what and where your going and then text her . Find a enviorment in which you thrive or know a lot about . For me its art galleries for you it may be a bowling alley. You will look like a dominate male and that is gonna be attractive to her.

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