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anyway to save this? [prudish asain girl]
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Author:  xiagox [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 1:30 am ]
Post subject:  anyway to save this? [prudish asain girl]
I know this is not a solid number, but I've had a dry spell and figure it's worth trying to the bitter end.

I was diggin this cute girl the whole semester. Never really got a chance to talk to her. Never really gave me eyes or anything but I thought she was attractive. The end of the semester comes around and I decided, what the hell I'll ask her out. I get her number after the final exam.
She protests, "but I don't even know you *big smile*" I say, "So what. We'll hang out and see where it goes."
I texted her about 2 hours later
"Who was the hot guy you were talking to? ;)"
she responds
"haha"
Now we're on spring break. 5 days later (today) I text her in reference to our grades
"you got an NR missy" (NR is failing) no response.
I assumed the text didn't go through due to shitty reception (my house has shitty reception, unlike at school).
8 hours later I text her
"I need a helicopter."
She responds
"Can you please stop sending me random texts? its really annoying"

This is the prudest girl I've ever dealt with so far. I'm 90% sure I'm the first guy who has ever asked her out (she's an asian, and a HB6 maybe). In an ideal world I would simply NEXT her. But does anyone have any ideas? school starts up in 5 days. I guess I could do a hailmary and invite her to hang out with me and my friends in a week.

I'm also tempted to text "is this [her name]?" there's a small possibility I got the wrong number?
Or I could text "kk, I'll start sending you a geometric series. That's anything but random :) how's break?"
or "it's called flirting. You should try it sometime. :)"
or "I'm trying to get to know you ^_^ what's your favorite color?"
or "oh no I don't want to be annoying. What do you study? ^_^"
Author:  Warmth [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 4:32 pm ]
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also tempted to text "is this [her name]?" there's a small possibility I got the wrong number?
Or I could text "kk, I'll start sending you a geometric series. That's anything but random how's break?"
or "it's called flirting. You should try it sometime. "
or "I'm trying to get to know you ^_^ what's your favorite color?"
or "oh no I don't want to be annoying. What do you study? ^_^"
All of those where AFC. You aren't OK with her being prude so don't act like it. Of course there are always ways to save relationships but it would go faster for you to find a new one. You'd also enjoy it more.

Try acting more confident and do a hail marry in a couple of weeks or so. This hail marry should be that you man up and call her, asking her to do something at your place. "hey its me. blablabla yeah that was fun... lets hang out now"
Author:  chazman0426 [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 4:48 pm ]
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"Can you please stop sending me random texts? its really annoying"

If it were me, I would have dropped her and gone no contact immediately after receiving that. Not only is that bitchy, it's just plain not fun. Why go for a girl who's not fun. Flirting is suppose to be mutual. The girls I text usually (but not always) text back the same amount, sometimes initiate texts even and are just as flirty back. That means they are interested

She doesn't seem interested. Stop wasting your time. If you want..you can send the "It's called flirting, you should try it sometime text" then just drop her. Don't reply to her for a few weeks. It will subtly let her know your interested and won't tolerate her bitchy attitude.
Author:  Rockets88 [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 5:52 pm ]
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I agree. This girl is a bitch. If she is an HB6 she should be happy as hell that a guy is interested in her. smh

That being said what did u plan on doing with these text messages? I need a helicopter is a very random text to a girl that you have almost no comfort or physical connection with. I used to send chicks random funny messages as a ping to gauge their interest. I believe your first text about the hot guy was funny. The other ones not so much. Comfort is not built through text messages. You are only wasting your time trying to build a connection through text. Only use text messages for setting up logistics for dates.
Author:  Musterion [ Fri Mar 09, 2012 6:02 pm ]
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Whilst the majority of issues have been covered by the other guys, one thing I picked up on was the fact that you sent her a text 2 hours after getting her number which was all cool and everything, but why did you then wait 5 days? My instinct tells me that aswell as the fact that you texts were just too random, after 5 days of no contact and only a brief interaction chances are she'd forgotten about you. Now freezing out is all well and good if you have some attraction/comfort/something/anything built with her already, but there was no real value to her getting back in touch with you, hence she didn't.

If I were you dude I'd delete the number and move on to better things.
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