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| Author: | Rockets88 [ Tue Mar 06, 2012 6:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Girl is giving me problems. Day 2 or Not |
So i met this really cute HB 8 chick with septum piercing out side my college's library. I basically walked up to her, told her that she looked like a pothead and that i wanted to smoke with her. She told me she didn't smoke but i ended up getting her number anyways. So a few days later i give her a call and we set something up. She totally flakes on me that day. I was like fuck it, i have other options. A few days later i hit her up and she picks up. We make arrangements to go out to dinner on valentines day and she agrees. Before we go on our date i ask her over to my place the Thursday before. Thursday arrives and i give her a call at 10pm. She picks up and heads over to my place. We chill on my bed and take about 3 - 4 shots each. I get in close (before this i was DHVing like a mofo cus i bawl like that). I put my arms around her and she is comfortable with it. I try to play with her panties but she is wearing under armor so i cant play with them and she keeps moving my fingers out of her pants. I kept prying but she was giving resistance and i didn't want to escalate too far and have buyers remorse so i kept it cool and left it at that in hopes of a day 2. Everything went well. I rolled a blunt (turns out she does smoke o.O ) and we talked and jokes for about 2 hours. The only kinda weird things that happened were the fact that she lied to me about not smoking when i met her, the fact she flaked on our first date, and that she wouldn't let me play with whats under the pants. My only awkward moment, and i cant believe i did this being as seasoned as myself is i told her a weird story about the time i got pepper sprayed in middle school. We watched a video of someone getting pepper sprayed i told her that i got pepper sprayed before. I immediately regretted saying that since it makes me kinda look crazy. She immediately started asking questions bout the situation but i avoided them and changed the subject. After this she said she had to leave in 35 minutes to catch the last train home. This was weird timing in my opinion but the time was congruent with the last train that leaves the station. So its the day before Valentines day. I give her a call. She picks up. She said she could go on the date if it was after 9 cus she gets out of class at 8. The reservations for the restaurant were at 8 cus my friend and his girl mad the reservation so i called her to say hey we are leaving at 8 can u still make it. But she says there isn't enough time for her to get ready and she has a lot of work to do for the test she has next week. I said i wanted to see her that night, so i would give her a call and see if she was free later. Well i go out with my friends and give her a call later but she didn't pick up. I text her a few days later asking if she wants to take some shots and smoke a blunt but she says she cant cus she has a lot of work to do. I say lets chill on Thursday instead and she didn't respond. A few days later i give her a call on my friends cell phone cus my phone is old as ish and has alot of connection problems. I told her that sometimes i call from my friends phone so be aware of that cus i didn't want to come off as creepy. So i give her a call and she picks up. We talk for about five minutes and i ask her what her week looks like. She says she's busy studying for test this week. then i suggest we hang out towards the end of the week. then she says "honestly i have test all week and i have friends coming over at the end of the week so i cant this week." I say its cool and ask her if she still wants to hang out sometime and she says "yes and that she will call me when she is free". I havn't called her since cus im on spring break now. My plan is to wait until i get back to school. Wait to see if she calls me the first week back. If she doesn't i plan on calling her Sunday around 7pm and see what he plans are for the week and set something up, perhaps to see silent house or another horror movie for a day 2. What are your thoughts on this situation and my plan of action and how i handled things? Any comments would be appreciated. |
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| Author: | kingmack07 [ Tue Mar 06, 2012 9:30 pm ] |
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I think you already know the answer. You have reached way too many times already. If she really was busy, she would have come back with a time she was free. Just wait for her to contact you. If she doesn't...you have to let that one go. You are in school, no reason to have oneitis, there are simply too many opportunities there. Explore others. |
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| Author: | Rockets88 [ Wed Mar 07, 2012 7:20 pm ] |
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Damn i had a feeling that was it. She was really cute and totally my type so i guess i'll just have to find a cuter girl. Man these day two's are killing me. You think i should have escalated farther and have her verbally tell me to stop or do u think i did a good job escalating given the circumstances? Also do u think she lost attraction for me cus of the story? I cant believe i said that story even tho its kinda funny and the fact is i got up right after he pepper sprayed to punch him a few times. lol. IDK it could be taken the wrong way i guess. |
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| Author: | kingmack07 [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 5:16 am ] |
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Your escalation was fine. Your story isn't the issue either. Chicks are hard to figure out sometimes. You contacted her too much...don't do that again. Lay back and do your own thing for minute. |
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| Author: | Rockets88 [ Thu Mar 08, 2012 6:01 pm ] |
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I agree i did chase this girl more than i should have. I debated about calling her on vday and i debated texting her again after i texted her the first time. I guess i must like what i see in her. We'll im not going to text or call her and see if she hits me up. Man i hate waiting... Onto options B through G |
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