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| Author: | Atlas1 [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 10:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Day 4...venue selection/etc? Am i screwing up here? |
So, met this girl online, about a 7 in looks but we got on really very well. I'm honestly somewhat struggling in keeping her away from becoming a oneitis. (Don't worry, I am forcing myself to go sarge,etc) Day 1 - Originally met online, 2 days later we went out to a pub for drinks. Drinks turned into dinner, dinner turned into singing irish drinking songs with the entertainment. 3 hours total, walked her to the subway, she initiated the kclose, i pulled away first, she grabbed me and kissed me again, then turned and walked down the steps. She texts soon after asking for a day 2! Day 2 - Dinner and a bottle of wine followed by games at my house. Had about 8 friends in attendance, 4 of them female friends. Several of my female friends were giving me IOIs right infront of the subject girl. HUGE social proof! Didn't get much alone time. Ended up making out a bit but she had to go. Day 3 - She came back over to my house to watch some TV and drink a bit. She had work early the next morning so we only had like 90 minutes together. I started up the escalation ramp but i (somehow? We've had a ton of conversation at this point..) dont think i built enough comfort. She started getting pretty obviously uncomfortable when i went for the neck / put my leg between hers so I backed off. She had to go about 20 min later..but planted a few more on me when i walked her to the door. Said shed call me. She doesnt! I texted her twice in the week, got poor responses (she doesn't seem to be a texter...ever since I met her she never really texts so not reading too much into this). Day 4 - What to do? I called her today, did not make any mention at all of her flake. She said shes free saturday and monday, I'm busy saturday so we picked on next monday. I then ended the call before it got into too much of a conversation, said I'd let her know what we're doing. Sooooo...ideas? So far its out to eat/drink twice, games with the friends, and tv. I want something with some alone time...but fun. Possibly something physical? Able to either make a move or easily transition back to one of our places to do so. Idea's so far are: 1) Laser Tag (theres a place right near her), i can ask to see her place and we can start drinking... 2) Salsa dancing. I'm honestly not a very good salsa dancer though....but I'm better than her (i started teaching her a little bit). Appreciate the help! Also, please point out any weaknesses/mistakes you see along the way. -Atlas Oh bonus question: Valnetines day is tomorrow. Shes not yet earned me doing anything really special/big for her. But I think it'd be a mistake to just ignore it. Any ideas on this? I'm even thinking just send her pictures of a rose boquet and teasing her saying something like "Too bad you didn't meet me sooner! Maybe next year if you are lucky..." |
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| Author: | topcat3 [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 10:34 pm ] |
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bowling... tennis.... go karting. or even just go for a stroll in the park. if theres some event on like a theme park that would be ideal.. adrenaline and talking is what you want. build the comfort up |
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| Author: | Musterion [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 11:00 pm ] |
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Ice Skating, physical, lots of fun (especially if neither of you are strong skaters), lots of kino (again if not strong skaters), not it's a date she will likely have not been on many times before, it's a bit out of the box compared to the normal dinner/drinks/movies etc she'll probably be used to. |
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| Author: | Atlas1 [ Mon Feb 13, 2012 11:02 pm ] |
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Ooh i like the ice skating idea! Theres an outdoor rink in walking distance from me in a square surrounded by bars. So we can skate, get drunk, and walk back to my place. I think we have a winner. Good show musterion!! Now...any tips on the valentines thing? |
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