Ok so this chick that is my neighbor and I went out for a lunch date that ended up extending to like a 4 hour hanging out date with multiple locations and blah blah...
We had lunch, went to the mall, shopped for jackets, went for coffee (5 min), went for a 10 min beach walk and enjoyed riding my motorcycle trhough out the entire date. She was having a good time it seemed, teasing me, laughing and while we were riding the motorcycle she would stick her hands from behind me into my jacket's pockets and ocasionally lean into me, shit,once or twice she even put her chin on my shoulder. I am almost certain she want something...
After the date we came to my house so that I could show her something really quick(text book game) and I could feel her vib'n. She was the one who said let's go for lunch so I assumed she had plans later that night. So I did not ask her to stay for a movie or anything. The thing is that the date went well but we did not kiss nor did we set up another date.
here is the texting that went down after the date
me- Not to give you a bubble head, but I was so drawn to you. It was weird. I just wasn't prepared. (I felt as if she wanted me to kiss her and I did not). I had a good time.
her-dont worry, my head won't blow up, I hear it all the time!!
Prepared for what? I had a good time too!!!me-Prepared to be drawned that way. U r soooo conceited, I shouldn't have mentioned.
her-I was teasing you!! I am not conceited!
me-oh, you got me...I hate texting
(we had discussed earlier how easy it is to misenterprate textes)her-ok from now on ";)" means teasing. lol
me-ok
How can I follow up, when, should I set up a date soon, wait for later, overthink it,
what is next, I know I should have kissed her and I am nervous that she is thinking that I have no balls...