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| Author: | Lyrico [ Thu Feb 09, 2012 5:37 am ] |
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I kiss closed a HB 8.0 yesterday. I got her number, and I want to text her. What to text? All we had together was the kiss. We did not really talk much because of the noisy environment. So there is little to write to her that applies to what we experienced together. What can I use to make her text her back, and ultimately meet her, and fuck her? Happy to get advices! 
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| Author: | Conker [ Thu Feb 09, 2012 7:03 pm ] |
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You answered your own question - you didn't talk, so there's nothing to talk about. You should have tried your best to take her to a quiet place to talk to her. Also - fuck texting. You're supposed to text as a second resort - always call first. Call her, ask her what she's doing, is she busy, and go from there - if she's at work/uni, and busy, you can ask to meet up after. If she's not busy, you can ask her what she does there. If she's at home, what's she watching/cooking/reading, whatever, try to start a conversation whilst being mindful of the time. If she doesn't pick up, then text. You may have to make a joke about the situation, it is odd having only kissed and never talked. Eg. "Okay I propose we meet up and do something other than kissing this time, like talk for example When are you free?"Also you'll have to get your mind of "fucking" as some sort of goal. If you were to take the quickest path there, you'll learn it's very unsatisfying. And you'll ruin the possibility of hanging around with a great girl because it will turn her off. You both have to want each other. Only in rare moments does it happen quickly and it's usually circumstantial. |
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| Author: | DontSnoopIfUGetMad [ Sat Feb 11, 2012 8:53 am ] |
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Are you crazy. Always text first. Calling is a high investment deal for her. Imagine the awkward silence you'll have if she answers and she's busy and you have nothing to say to her or if she had buyers remorse from making out with you lol. Always text first unless you built a super connection with her on your interaction. A call should expect made after you've built enough connection with her via text or during first interaction. And when you do get to the point where you are ready to ask her out, call her to do so not text. When you call her to ask her out it shows confidence. You don't have to take my word for it though. But that's what I do with success. |
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| Author: | Conker [ Sat Mar 03, 2012 12:54 am ] |
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You said how bad a call would be for her and then gave how awkward you would feel as a reason. That's the real reason If she's busy, say you'll call back later. If you have nothing to say to her, why are you even trying to contact her? If she has buyer's remorse you're fucked anyway. Why pussy foot around? Ok if you say you have a system that works for you, I'll believe you. But you can't say "never call first" like it's a rule, when that's exactly what I do. I don't do it every time - just whatever feels right. |
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| Author: | samex [ Sat Mar 03, 2012 2:19 am ] |
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Quote: Are you crazy. Always text first. Calling is a high investment deal for her.
Your right on many points, especially that you should build enough connection before calling. Their are though more ways of looking at it.Imagine the awkward silence you'll have if she answers and she's busy and you have nothing to say to her or if she had buyers remorse from making out with you lol. Always text first unless you built a super connection with her on your interaction. A call should expect made after you've built enough connection with her via text or during first interaction. And when you do get to the point where you are ready to ask her out, call her to do so not text. When you call her to ask her out it shows confidence. You don't have to take my word for it though. But that's what I do with success. You see, if you call and start talking to her one the phone, it not only demonstrates confidence on your end, but also establishes the deep connection someone has with another person over the phone. Plus, talking can lead to a deeper connection because she has to focus on talking to you and only you, where as when she is texting/bbm, she could have her attention in multiple places... However, since the OP is asking advice on texting, than advice on texting should be given. For the sake of it, keep it light and fun, and try and mention something that she will remember or recognize about you. "Hey X, of all the girls I met last with the name X, you were definitely my favourite  "Hope that helps, samex |
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| Author: | lester24 [ Tue Mar 06, 2012 12:27 pm ] |
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Text her same night, at the end of the night. Something simple that will get the "texting game" going. Something like: "Hey ____, Hope you get home safe  Your name" is a pretty simple go-to.She will usually write back something positive if she enjoyed the time you guys spent together, maybe just "yeah, I did. thanks x" or "thanks. are you still here/there" Then you can get the texts flowing the next day and go for the meet up sometime from there. Hope this helped |
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| Author: | RedHoTChilliPeppers [ Tue Mar 06, 2012 7:19 pm ] |
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you can start with simple txt like. Hi ________! Hope your week has been good Feel like mine’s never going to end..!and when she text you back you should Stay light and playful, then jump into serious topics, and then back to being playful and flirtatious. |
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