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Author:  old fashioned [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 3:16 pm ]
Post subject:  AFC need some help !... got LJBF´ed
hi pick up artists !
15 year old AFC here need some help !

im in deep shit, with this girl... I got a oneitis on this HB named Katie in my class,who i have been on a date with one time. It went very well, but i didn´t k-close her although she showed a lot of IOI´S.. I think she kinda got hurt that i didn´t kissed her, and threw me in the friend zone.

A couple of weeks after the date, a girlfriend of Katie´s, told me that the Katie , was totally in to me, before i took her on a date. But after the date she kinda lost interest. In that moment when I heard that, I sent a text to Katie . In the text i opened up and told her that i had a crush on her, and that i wanted to be more than friends... Katie LJBF´ed me and said "i think you are very sweet but i don't look at you in that way" and all that crap... but i know thats a lie.

Next day in class i totally froze Katie out, and I've been doing that for month now... I know it hurts her, and her friends is mad at me for doing it...

But i can't get over her. I still want her to be mine... How can i get this girl ? what to do ? ':?'

sorry for the bad english :) I'm european...
Author:  robinbhood [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 3:20 pm ]
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Hey =]

I'm sure you already understand opening up to her and expressing your feelings is generally a terrible idea but what is done is done.

I'm not an expert by any means but it always occurred to me that the freeze out technique is most useful and efficient when it is used against LMR, not against LJBF.

Against LJBF, you have many options but most revolve around the idea of displaying higher value e.g. always being seen having fun with another girl(s) and generally making her jealous without appearing like you're attempting to.

Personally I would move on but if you must have her, try and game on other girls first and when she sees your value increase, TALK to her.

With all due respect, freezing her out makes you look like a whiny bitch in this situation.
Author:  old fashioned [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 3:56 pm ]
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I'm sure you already understand opening up to her and expressing your feelings is generally a terrible idea
yeah, i know but i just needed to get it out fast... but i won't ever do it in that way again ! :lol:
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With all due respect, freezing her out makes you look like a whiny bitch in this situation.


I just find it very awkward to speak to her after she rejected me like that... but i know what you mean, and i will start acting like a man with her from now on :lol:

anyone who got a different opinion on this ? and what i should do ? :)

but thank you for the advice :)
Author:  Vietman100 [ Thu Jan 26, 2012 6:05 am ]
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I don't think it makes you look like a whiney little bitch. You know what you want, but she's giving you shit. In this situation, silence will work wonders. I don't mean be rude and ignore her. If she initiates contact then yeah talk to her but make the conversation very short.
What would work even better is cutting her off and telling her you have to go because your new female interest just came into proximity. The green eyed monster will come out as she watches you walk away to start talking to another girl.
Author:  old fashioned [ Thu Jan 26, 2012 4:47 pm ]
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well thats a different point of view ! i will definitely try it out ! ... any other oppinions or suggestions ?

... but after i made her jealous and all that other stuff, what should i do next to get her ? just run my normal game and act like i never sent that text message to her ? or what ?

thanks for your help guys ! I'm very grateful !
Author:  Vietman100 [ Thu Jan 26, 2012 9:47 pm ]
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Yup, just be casual and pretend you're gaming her for the first time.
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