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| Author: | mysterios [ Sun Dec 25, 2011 4:10 pm ] |
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So I met this girl at a club who seemed interested in me and gave me her #. I texted her the next day and we conversed for a bit. I am planning to ask her out during this week but I don't know where to take her. I don't want to take her to a museum because we're not couples. I'm debating if I should take her to a bar or club, and where I would take her if we decide to have sex since I can't go back home. Would a motel be a bad idea or is there other places? |
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| Author: | Beetle [ Sun Dec 25, 2011 5:56 pm ] |
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Whoa whoa whoa. You're getting ahead of yourself. You aren't a couple yet. Just do something fun, cheap, where she can tag along if she wants to. Nothing extravagant. |
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| Author: | mysterios [ Sun Dec 25, 2011 7:14 pm ] |
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To be honest though, I don't think this girl wants a long term relationship. Should I be patient with it still? |
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| Author: | Beetle [ Sun Dec 25, 2011 9:13 pm ] |
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Don't get into the mindset of "this is how they do it in the movies". That's how you perceive badly what's actually simple. Just look at the situation objectively. She's probably a busy adult, she is unlikely to sacrifice a whole day to somebody she barely knows. And you are not a couple to do couple stuff together. For now, you are just two adults who like each other enough to give some kind of relationship a chance. Look up some PUA first date guides. they are written in this mindset. |
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| Author: | OneManArmy [ Tue Dec 27, 2011 8:26 am ] |
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Teppanyaki restaurants are "fun" place to go.... |
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| Author: | RealMe [ Tue Dec 27, 2011 8:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Places for dates |
Quote: So I met this girl at a club who seemed interested in me and gave me her #. I texted her the next day and we conversed for a bit. I am planning to ask her out during this week but I don't know where to take her. I don't want to take her to a museum because we're not couples. I'm debating if I should take her to a bar or club, and where I would take her if we decide to have sex since I can't go back home. Would a motel be a bad idea or is there other places?
I took similar girl to play a pool recently. For me this is the best place. I like to play pool and after a while you can sit and chat over beer of sth.
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| Author: | Agent Juliet [ Wed Dec 28, 2011 12:44 am ] |
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Amusement park and a rollercoaster/go karting/ paint balling/ surfing... etc. It's been demonstrated that girls associate the adrenaline rush when doing something exciting with the adrenaline rush and increased heart rate felt when falling for someone. Subconsciously, it goes something like this: "why is my heart beating like this when I am with this guy? I must be falling for him..." A bit like a Pavlovian reflex 
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| Author: | 03mohemz [ Wed Dec 28, 2011 12:15 pm ] |
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Firstly you shouldn't consider the first meeting with her as a 'date'. Get out of that mindset. Don't take suggest to her anywhere that is strictly dating locations example dinner, movie etc.. I'd personally drop her a txt like 'Hey X, just poping into town to do some shopping, come keep me company' Or something to that effect. You have plausible deniability. Secondly, when you're in town with her then you can suggest something like 'I saw this really nice coffee shop down the road, lets go and check it out' Make sure the logistics are in place, so obviously don't ask her to come shopping if you know she's at work. Also depending on how it goes don't forget to organise another meet up. Again avoid making it a typical date venue. In fact my rule is to never ever take a girl out for dinner, movie or all the typical lovely duvy stuff until I've Fclosed her. Hope this helps buddy. |
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