I have a problem.. I have an excellent game at the beginning, I draw attention to me, I become an alpha, I`m confident and everything, the girl is interested, but then, when I get IOIs or when it`s time to make a next step- I don`t do it. And then, when time passes by, but not long, a few minutes, I lose a girl, bcs some other guy comes along and distracts her etc.. i don`t know how to deal with cockblocks and i have problems with proceeding to C phase and a Kiss close..

By next step I mean like isolate or kiss close or starting to escalate to more intimate level.. That stuff. I am strong there too, but I only do it when a girl pulls me into the C phase. I don`t do it and it always seemed like something came along that I couldn`t do it, but now I`m starting to see that I`m the problem..

It's all circumstantial.

Maybe the women you've gotten with have strictly defined limits, because they learned that if you don't have limits - things escalate to a critical level.

It's like anything desirable. Case in point: alcohol. A glass of Scotch every now and then won't hurt, but if you don't have limits - that one glass turns into binge drinking that ultimately turns into alcoholism.

Same with women, except it's not just one variable, but hundreds of different dynamics working synergistically. If they've had bad experiences before, they won't let a one night deal ignite into an uber-intimate ordeal.