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| Author: | D0A [ Fri Dec 16, 2011 5:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | After F-Closing, now what? |
Hi guys, So over the past few weeks, I've number closed a couple of girls. For the first girl, I organized a day two (mini-golfing and outdoor stuff), got her back to my place and f-closed. Problem is now she wants a relationship and I can't get rid of her. She sends me messages every time about going together to different places. Now (since then) I've met up with about 3 different girls and kiss-closed, but I haven't escalated further because I don't know what to do after f-closing. Guys, how do you f-close girls while letting them know there are no strings attached? |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Fri Dec 16, 2011 5:49 am ] |
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learn how to moderate an set expectations explicitly or implicitly. What I do after f-closes to girls I don't want to date regularly is plan a date a week out and say im busy for the next few days. I can usually moderate a chick over a few weeks before they accept that Im not going to be their boyfriend and keep humping me or bail. |
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| Author: | fitnessgreg22 [ Mon Dec 19, 2011 5:43 pm ] |
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This thread deserves more attention as this issue is weird for me as well. I don't want to get tons of unsolicited msgs from these girls |
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| Author: | D0A [ Tue Dec 20, 2011 4:26 pm ] |
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Thanks for your response Detox. Guys! Come on, help us out here!! 117 reads and only 1 response? |
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| Author: | that-Dale-Guy [ Tue Dec 20, 2011 7:04 pm ] |
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Well i had the same situation after F-closing bout a year back,this girl was texting me frequently and talkin bout a relationship and stuff. I still wanted her to be a Friend with benifits(FWB). I used my studies as an excuse for not being able to keep a relationSHIP afloat.. Making it clear i wont be able to contribute much time to a relationship and she kinda understood. We fucked for months after that till i relocated. Now before and after f-close i make it clear that my social status doesnt allow anything longterm (when i DHV) and they usually get it.. lol I told this one girl "I have a problem with staying faithful" She laughed it off,bt we still screwd knowing there was no expectations after that. I dnt know if this will help to you but thats just how i roll. Anyway goodluck dude, hope you get her of ya back but still keep her in ya bed lol |
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