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| Author: | smokinmonkey [ Sat Nov 26, 2011 4:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Need help building attracting long distance |
So basically this girl i was seeing moved away, I want to maintain the attraction with her even though she is away. We are keeping in contact via text and SPAM. I'm not sure how to play this one as it becomes too easy to be "boring" and talk about crap which will send you straight to friendville. How can I build attraction through text and SPAM. I've already started to ignore her for a bit as she wanted to SPAM be two days in a row (I happened to be online so I couldn't say I wasn't there). So she texts the day after SPAM saying "Hey what's up?" usually I'd reply back but I've just ignored it and I'll wait to see what she does or when she contacts me again. |
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| Author: | neyos [ Sat Nov 26, 2011 7:16 pm ] |
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make her feel closer to you than ever. closer than to her female friends and family.. to her you should be the only one she can share everything with. when you SPAM (video chat), make sure she only sees your upper body and your relaxed face. she doesn't need to know that you're touching yourself to keep your spirits high while talking to her for hours about her (and maybe your) dreams, hopes and fears.. all of her past (beginning from early childhood) her plans and visions for the future, her deepest secrets, you name it... after that we'll see if you still want her.. you might both end up with one-itis though. |
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| Author: | Efildrah [ Sat Nov 26, 2011 8:49 pm ] |
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From my own personal experience this is a bad idea. I tried doing so, and we ended up being ,,best friends'' chances to hold the attraction means to be constant (happy nice face every time you go SPAM) , but then she will come to talk to you only because she needs YOU to entertain her. This is possible if: 1) You both plan on being with each other in few weeks/months/years 2) One-itis is never good, since fantasizing and living your life are two opposite sides of the dice 3) Stay cool, talk to her, be her friend, give her compliment, ask her silly questions and build some attraction but only thing i beg you is : Lower your expectations AS MUCH as possible, or you can hurt yourself really bad for no reason... p.s: This is my opinion, hope it helps a little, personally one-itis was good for me for the first few weeks when i was extra fast, energetic trying make this girl love me, but after those weeks i went so deep into misery (I think that is a universal rule) Love yourself and your emotions and lower expectations, that will do it |
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| Author: | neyos [ Sat Nov 26, 2011 9:37 pm ] |
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now that's some good advice given above. unless you fancy a emotional rollercoaster ride, don't take my advice..i'm just in a loco mood today due to sleep deprivation. |
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| Author: | smokinmonkey [ Sun Nov 27, 2011 12:23 am ] |
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We were together before she went out to Australia (booked before she met me). Didn't want to go, fell in love with me etc. I don't want to end up making her a best friend because without seeing her for so long I know the attraction will fade. I want to try and keep her interested if possible. |
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| Author: | neyos [ Sun Nov 27, 2011 6:22 pm ] |
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her being in australia means she'll soon be enjoying the company of exotically cool and friendly australian blokes. happens to almost all chicks that go there. australians just got a certain something. so don't bother braking up or keeping her hooked either. just keep in touch the way she'd expect you to and keep all doors open for her to get back to you if she feels like it and go about your own PUA business in the meantime. |
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