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Author:  GoldDust [ Wed Nov 23, 2011 2:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Getting a girl back to my house...or hers?
I'll quickly go over the events which lead up to this:

Make eye contact with a girl on the dancefloor, dance, isolate, small talk, make out, number close.

Ok I've done this quite a few times but never manage to close the deal. I can't get a girl back to my house because of parents. The only option is her place.

I've tried to be as direct as I could sometimes by saying " You're coming home with me tonight " and she says "No I'm not" or "I'm staying at my friends place" but she is smiling and laughing when she says this. Maybe she thinks I'm joking, I'm not sure.

How to you guys get a girl back to her place at the end of the night?
Author:  JSmooth [ Wed Nov 23, 2011 8:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Getting a girl back to my house...or hers?
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How to you guys get a girl back to her place at the end of the night?
Find a girl that you like and logistically stands a good chance of going home with you at the end of the night. Attract, Build Comfort, Seduce... control the logistics, and hang out until sex happens.
Author:  Tha Villager [ Wed Nov 23, 2011 9:51 pm ]
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I have problems here too and I wish I knew where I'm going wrong. The last 3 times I went out I made out with a different girl each time. Did I get laid? Not a chance. I know there could be millions of reasons why this happens but is there anyone with some good experience here that can help us out?
Author:  Max DHV [ Sat Nov 26, 2011 7:06 am ]
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and she says "No I'm not" or "I'm staying at my friends place" but she is smiling and laughing when she says this. Maybe she thinks I'm joking, I'm not sure.
Theres no way she thinks your joking mate, you've made your intentions clear, she knows that and she likes it. Shes enjoying the chase due to her smiling and laughing and would have been down for it had you got your steps right (attraction, comfort phases etc - buy the book The Mystery Method). A 'No I'm not' with no smiling/laughing would have had you in a much tougher position.

But for sure, if your home is no option then you have lowered your odds dramatically. You gotta move out, simple. OR have such good game that she initiates taking you to hers - one way Ive heard on here though never tried is to get as close as possible to k-close in the club and then hold back. This maintains the tension which she should want to relieve by taking you home, some guys on here say that k-close in the club causes the tension (and the bang) to be lost. I can see that...
Author:  JSmooth [ Sat Nov 26, 2011 7:20 am ]
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Exactly as MAX pointed out...if you want this then you are going to need your own place. Your odds drastically increase that way. As you said bro there could be thousands of reasons why you aren't getting her back to have sex. It could be logistics, how you are framing the evening, etc. Without being there or a more thorough review of what happened it's really hard to know where it went wrong.
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