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Author:  Athenian [ Mon Nov 21, 2011 12:54 am ]
Post subject:  Number close - Need to get her in a comfort zone first
Good evening!

OK so there is this girl here at University who I am attracted to. We are both in our final year. We used to go out to clubs with the same friend groups in first year (Im sure she was attracted to me but I dont even want to discuss my social skills from back then), second year didnt we didnt even speak once, third year we were both on placement in different countries, and now in final year we live in the same complex. We have been speaking to eachother whenever we see eachother and I am sure there is something there.

Approaching etc is no problem for me, I have got past the shyness and worry of rejection. The thing I need to improve on is getting the girl in the comfort zone. I mean I cant just ask her to go out for coffee or shisha just like that as she will think this is weird as we havnt even gone out together for more than 2 years. We do have eachother on facebook but I try to avoid facebook chat. What can I do to make her feel comfortable enough to make her give me her number? Any techniques/phrases etc that you can recommend? (To be honest this is something I really do need to improve, the rest of my game is coming along nicely).

Thanks, any help is much appreciated.

-Athenian
Author:  JSmooth [ Mon Nov 21, 2011 4:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Number close - Need to get her in a comfort zone first
Quote:
Good evening!

OK so there is this girl here at University who I am attracted to. We are both in our final year. We used to go out to clubs with the same friend groups in first year (Im sure she was attracted to me but I dont even want to discuss my social skills from back then), second year didnt we didnt even speak once, third year we were both on placement in different countries, and now in final year we live in the same complex. We have been speaking to eachother whenever we see eachother and I am sure there is something there.

Approaching etc is no problem for me, I have got past the shyness and worry of rejection. The thing I need to improve on is getting the girl in the comfort zone. I mean I cant just ask her to go out for coffee or shisha just like that as she will think this is weird as we havnt even gone out together for more than 2 years. We do have eachother on facebook but I try to avoid facebook chat. What can I do to make her feel comfortable enough to make her give me her number? Any techniques/phrases etc that you can recommend? (To be honest this is something I really do need to improve, the rest of my game is coming along nicely).

Thanks, any help is much appreciated.

-Athenian
To be honest it's more than techniques and phrases. You need to genuinely ask her questions when you see her strike up conversation and build rapport before she'll be comfortable enough to get on a date with you. You'll have to do this when you see her around.
Author:  Athenian [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 1:06 am ]
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I had a feeling it would be this. Guess I better get cracking on then. Thanks man!
Author:  Endooo [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 1:51 am ]
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Strike up good conversation when you see her, and look for things to tease her bout, but not enough to offend her. Flirting will build rapport and once you see constant ioi's try to set up a date.
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