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| Author: | Jowai32 [ Wed Nov 09, 2011 6:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | The best way to keep her interest before the date comes? |
Hey guys, so I met this girl online, we exchanged text a bit she seems interested, and accept a date on Friday night. I don't know what to do during the next few days before the date. I always mess this part up (And I think I already did, I texted her a couple times, she didn't response back). My question is what to do before that day comes, should I text her to keep her interest, or wait till the day before the date then text her? I don't wanna make the same mistakes anymore, Thank you so much guys. |
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| Author: | Jowai32 [ Wed Nov 09, 2011 7:02 am ] |
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Anyone please? |
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| Author: | MynameisFisher [ Wed Nov 09, 2011 8:11 am ] |
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I usually text her once a day to kéép me inside her head but what I text is just random BS. Like... "I had to give the kiss of life to a mountain goat. It's okay now" (credit goes to Mex,a Hungarian PUA on this one). It doesn't even matter if she replies or not, it will make her smile and think about you. |
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| Author: | Jowai32 [ Wed Nov 09, 2011 9:09 am ] |
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Wouldn't be kinda annoying and needy? Like if she's not responding back, and you keep sending her a text everyday. And what should I do right now, 2 more days to Friday, should I text her Thursday night, to confirm the date on Friday? (ps. we haven't set the time yet, I told her I'll let her know this week, but since she's not responding, I can't tell her what time should we meet at.) Thanks 
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| Author: | Leo26 [ Wed Nov 09, 2011 10:00 am ] |
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Wait as long as you can befor you txt her back to confirm the time ,try and push it as late as mid friday, dont ask her what time and place, give her a time and place ( in a nice way). She will probably end up Txting you first. And DONT txt her every day!!! Thats needy and a one way ticket to the friend zone. Dont let her get used to you and you txt's and give her time to miss you befor your date. Let us know how it went. |
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| Author: | Jowai32 [ Wed Nov 09, 2011 7:24 pm ] |
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Thanks man I'll definitely do that, text her on Friday. And I'll keep you guys updated. |
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| Author: | Jowai32 [ Wed Nov 09, 2011 7:42 pm ] |
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So I didn't txt her the last two days, today is Friday, I just sent her a txt, using the "I met your twins last night" to her, and see what happens. |
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| Author: | Jowai32 [ Fri Nov 11, 2011 6:28 pm ] |
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I think I lost her, what should I say to follow up that and make her responses back? |
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| Author: | Jowai32 [ Fri Nov 11, 2011 8:04 pm ] |
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My last message was "Ha omg you won't believe, I just met your twins last night, kinda reminds me of you. Lol" Thinking to follow up with "except she's way nicer (neg her), so rock,paper, scissors. Pick one.  "Any thoughts? |
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| Author: | dmeschke [ Fri Nov 11, 2011 9:27 pm ] |
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to be honest man, you may have screwed up. double texts from guys are never a good thing and if a girl is busy, your the guy who keeps interrupting her. id leave it and wait |
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| Author: | Jowai32 [ Fri Nov 11, 2011 9:53 pm ] |
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Ya, I thought so too. Just dunno where did I screw up, after set up the date, she been ignoring me since then. |
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| Author: | EdinD [ Sat Nov 12, 2011 12:55 am ] |
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Im right there with you I have a date to tomorrow (going over her house) but I always have problems with my time bridge, I like to keep my cool and have her feeling excited so i dont text much the day before to keep her on her toes, im not sure if this is the best method, due to her maybe flaking. Im putting it to the test. Deff dont look needy or clingy tho. |
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| Author: | Jowai32 [ Sat Nov 12, 2011 1:25 am ] |
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I know thats always the hardest part, I screw this up so many times in the past. I usually text the girl something fun and playful the day before to keep the temperature up and make her excited about tomorrow's date.. but can't over do it or you'll look needy. And I decided not to text the girl back, since I already lost her. Best of luck man. |
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| Author: | EdinD [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 5:28 pm ] |
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It worked. I got a bj last from a hb 6. I'm going to use this method. Pretty much all I did was thursday talked on the phone, set the date for Saturday, ended the call on a high note, the next morning I got a text, if she does not text you the day between your date just let it be until the date and call her the day of to let her know you'll see her at what time, still keep your cool and don't look needy or too excited act like its any other day and a regular part of your life to hang out with women. but if she texts or calls you during your time bridge act busy like you have a lot going on let her miss you. on Friday she texted me asking me what I was doing I replied with "about to go smoke hookah with a friend" left it at that and made no convo, this shows her that you value your time and devote your time with others when you're with them and as I said before keeps her on her toes even if you aren't busy make sure you are whether its buildng a puzzle, playing ps3 or not doing a damn thing you make sure you tell her you are busy doing something. The day of the date call her a few hours before and talk like you would normally and let her know you'll see her at what ever time you planned keep it short and sweet end the call letting her know you have to get back finishing taking care of stuff (you're a busy man remember) what your doing is showing value to yourself your time while creating emotions in her. don't seem friendly overly needy other wise your going to get bails. Once you get this down put your seduction to play. I hope this helps man, let me know if you end up using this. |
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| Author: | Jowai32 [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 8:31 pm ] |
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Awesome!!! I will try that out. I got another girl who's I think she's playing games on me, first message she put me at her favorite list, then pretty much every text she sent something like "I miss you, XOXO" I don't give a shit, I act cool and reply back something funny, but she ignore my text, and the next 2 day text me back said she was busy and miss me, I text back, no responses again. This has been the story of last 2 weeks. We didn't have a chance to talk and get to know each other at all. So I eventually gave up on her, she text me last night said "Hey you Sorry for the late reply. Guess your used to me by now. Hows ur saturday nite so far?" (the last message I sent her was 2 days ago) I told her "Ya I don't think we can be friends anymore", she responses within a sec "Are you really mad?" Then I wait for a couple hours and said "No I'm not mad. I just don't know if you're real or not, we haven't met or talk much at all" she hasn't reply yet as usual. What do you guys think? This time she message me I pull back, and question her neg her a bit, is that a good move or not? |
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