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| Author: | Antmo11 [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 6:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I really really need some help? |
Ill try and be brief...I met a girl our first hangout was sat night. She goes to a college near where I live so she invited me out to go to a house party and then stay at her dorm. So needless to say we both new how the night was going to end. So we got back to her place and you know what happens next. So anyway the next day I noticed her being incredibly wifey. I can tell she already thinks we are going to date but I do not want to. Anyway we have a planned hangout this coming weekend at my place so we can hook up again(and she knows she is coming over to hookup because i told her she was.) So my question is what is the best way to go about having her over so we can hookup but not have her feeling like its a date which is what I am really trying to avoid. Because as I mentioned early I can see that she is quite clingy. Any input or help would be really really appreciated. |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Tue Nov 01, 2011 5:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I really really need some help? |
Quote: Ill try and be brief...I met a girl our first hangout was sat night. She goes to a college near where I live so she invited me out to go to a house party and then stay at her dorm. So needless to say we both new how the night was going to end. So we got back to her place and you know what happens next. So anyway the next day I noticed her being incredibly wifey. I can tell she already thinks we are going to date but I do not want to. Anyway we have a planned hangout this coming weekend at my place so we can hook up again(and she knows she is coming over to hookup because i told her she was.) So my question is what is the best way to go about having her over so we can hookup but not have her feeling like its a date which is what I am really trying to avoid. Because as I mentioned early I can see that she is quite clingy. Any input or help would be really really appreciated.
Before you have sex with someone you really need to set the expectation for what you want in a relationship whether it's just for sex, for dating, a long term thing etc. Just being direct and to the point about what you want is the thing to do. A lot of guys don't do this cause they things girls will blow them off if they just want sex, but women want it too!Don't lure girls into sex thinking they will have a relationship. Just be straight with them up front with what you want. Do this sometime in comfort before sex. |
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