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| Author: | 101wilson [ Sun Oct 30, 2011 6:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Her friends steal her away from me! |
Hey guys! I need help with a situation: So last night i opened a HB9 in a quiet room of a club by sticking my elbow out as she brushed past and making a drama out of it. We built comfort quickly and gained good rapport in a matter of minutes, so far without revealing my name...there's a plan for this. After some banter and negging with her friends I then isolated her and started talking slower and softer to build attraction. Very shortly, before I get the opportunity to escelate kino and perhaps kiss/number close, her friends pull her away from me swiftly to go to a different room in the club. At which point I was pretty stumped on what to say. Judging from the rapid succession through the phases we would have kissed/exchanged numbers soon. It happenned very quickly but this is what went down: Me: What's your name? (As she is pulled away from me) Her: Hannah. Yours? Me: I'll tell you when I see you later. (Hopefully will bump into her again.) Upon bumping into her/meeting her again at the club, my intention was to go along the lines of: (The IOIs were solid coming from her and assuming she still wants to know my name.) Her: I still don't know your name. Me: I'm not going to tell you it that easy, you have to trade something for it. I'll tell you my name if you give me 11 digits. (Her telephone number). She then hopefully gives me her digits. So, gentlemen, the two questions that I would like to pose to you today are: 1) What could I have said/done to stop her from leaving???? 2) I realise that it was a big risk hoping that I would see her again later at the club let alone having not had another guy approach her etc. etc. Could I have number closed in that instant???? Your opinions will be greatly appreciated. |
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| Author: | Lucky69 [ Tue Nov 01, 2011 1:30 am ] |
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I see nothing wrong per say, but in this situation, kino'ing earlier would've gotten you better results. But honestly, when her friends are pulling her away you can't do anything after that. Hopefully next time this happens, the HB would've been more invested. |
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| Author: | gulaz [ Thu Nov 03, 2011 4:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Her friends steal her away from me! |
Her friends probably are jealous, because the main HB have guy company and the others probably dont. Try "atack" with male friends, use numbers against numbers. |
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| Author: | drambuie [ Fri Nov 04, 2011 10:36 am ] |
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Try and focus your attention more towards her friends 'the obstacles' before you try isolating her. Build more rapport and connection with her friends. The more comfortable they are with talking to you, the more willing they will be to grant you that privilege of isolation with the target. Of course its not always fool proof. What I've just said usually goes straight out the window if they're drunk - which can be a bit of a problem. Nothing you can do about that. |
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