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Author:  Coitus [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 6:39 am ]
Post subject:  Do I still have a chance?

Firstly Im 18 years old, rather new to PU.

So I met this girl online 3 days ago (she does modelling so she's a looker) and we started to chat on Facebook then moved to texting the next day. I played it cool and managed to get her to initiate the texting most of the time and also flirted a bit/made jokes as usual.

She lives near me and she suggested that we meet up for beach + lunch. The first day she didn't have her car or bus pass so she couldn't make it the first day. She suggested we go the day after so I know she wasn't blowing me off.

So we meet up and the first 10-15 seconds is a bit awkward (never met anyone from online) but I wasn't overly nervous. We went to the beach and spoke heaps (made her laugh heaps and teased playfully a bit) though I did not make heaps of physical contact (wasnt sure how as we were just lying on the beach). She turned her hole body to face me for a while so that was a good sign. I held her hand and looks at her nails and when we went for a swim we were really close and I brushed up against her non-freakishly just from the current moving me. While walking around she stayed close and she once tried walking off to the side a bot to test if I would follow but I just ignored it and she came back quickly. She wanted to continue to be with me but I couldn't think of much else to do (we had alot in common so she was good company) and I hugged her when we went separate ways which seemed alright.

So do I still have a chance to up the kino on day 2? Any advice would be good thanks.

And when should I text her?

Author:  pleasureseeker [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 11:09 am ]
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you didn't kiss her?? that's pretty pussy move, she probably thinks you don't like her. Just ask her out again and escalate kino... definitely don't text her, call her up and ask her to hang out, she might be hesitant but be confident and convince her.

Author:  Coitus [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 12:54 pm ]
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Well I wasn't sure if she just wanted tO be friends because her profile said she was also looking for new friends as she's new to my country. I dont think I used enough kino through the time together so kissing her would have been to high of a jump. As I said I'm new to this and im not the best with kino

Author:  Coitus [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 9:00 am ]
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Any more input or advice please?

Author:  pleasureseeker [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 9:14 am ]
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your too insecure and full of self-doubt. If a girl is willing to talk/build comfort and accepts kino escalation then she likes you romantically. Become touchier. escalation of physical contact is sooo important. If she accepts where you touch her, escalate more. If she gives you negative body language or doesn't like your escalation then punish her with IOD's back, make her feel uncomfortable/rejected then try to escalate again.

Author:  Coitus [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 11:19 am ]
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Alright I'll make sure to use more kino next time. Is the beach a bad place for kino (lying next to each other) or is it just me lol

Author:  Rilla [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 11:39 am ]
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The beach is a great place for kino! Be more confident, you know what your doing, your doing it right. Why the hell shouldnt she want you. you got this!

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