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| Author: | kingmack07 [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 2:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Got the number but no response... |
I was at club celebrating a buddies birthday. (I ma keep this short) I danced with this HB10 for over an hour! Got the number. Call her 3 days later, giggles and says that she's super busy and that she would call back (grad student). No response. 3 days later, I text her, saying "hopefully you haven't forgotten about me, hit me back when you get a chance". No response still. I wanted to invite her to a halloween party next weekend. Lost cause? Thoughts? |
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| Author: | AmazingArt [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 2:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Dosen't make a difference |
Doesn't make a difference whether she forgot about you or not. You should not base anything on this girl. You should rather go out and game other girls. Like this you will have so many options that this girl will be as important to you as 20 other girls you got numbers from. Just few points about your responses "hopefully you haven't forgotten about me, hit me back when you get a chance" this statement is not the best you could have said simply because your implying to her that she might have a reason to forget you. You should assume she remembers you unless you have strong reasons to believe otherwise. Don't text her give her a call she might still be up for it. Good luck! - Amazing Art - |
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| Author: | Quillard [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 11:20 am ] |
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As much as I agree with my upstairs neighbor on this (Don't base anything on this girl)... I urge you to keep going. It's great practice. And it'll give you more insight. I keep repeating the following: Give her a story. If the story's 'right'... she'll be more than willing to play her role. For good reason. Go over the story. 'Our protagonist has met a girl in the bar. They danced for over an hour. She gave him her number. He called. She picked up. She brushed him off. He smsed "Hope you haven't forgotten me". She hasn't responded' Not a very enticing story... so let's spooge that up. As you can see, you've tried to mix Bar-passion with romantic-passion. Casting yourself as the romantic (By way of sms, which is less than 'romantic'). Can you see why that might be less than desirable? Can you imagine her telling her friends... she met a guy in a bar? ---------- Step 1. Absolve Right now the fact that she hasn't replied will stop her from replying in the future. It's a breech of etiquette, It's awkward. So first, rid her of that. Absolve her of that crime with a 'cruel temptress type-cast' Like this: "Argh, [name], you know this is only making it harder for me to forget you, right? Hadn't pegged you as the cruel type ;P." Or "Devil-Woman, You're turning me into a cliché! :p" ---- There you have it. Your task. Further instructions will be given upon execution and report. (Yes, I said that) |
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| Author: | kingmack07 [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 4:08 pm ] |
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AmazingArt, says to call and invite her out for next weekend and not mention anything about the previous encounters (lack of call/text response). Quill, you are telling me to absolve her lack of response by, texting OR calling her? And should I still invite her to the party? She's the whole package! (I AM trying to not to put her pussy on a pedestal though) |
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| Author: | Quillard [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 4:12 pm ] |
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Either's good and no. Not yet. |
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| Author: | kingmack07 [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 4:23 pm ] |
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Yea I'll call her on Thursday. |
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| Author: | kingmack07 [ Mon Oct 24, 2011 8:01 pm ] |
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I haven't contacted her yet as by our plan. But she just added me on Facebook...I haven't accepted yet. Any advice? |
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| Author: | Quillard [ Mon Oct 24, 2011 9:27 pm ] |
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Don't. Let 'r mellow. Make sure your profile's closed to outsiders. It drives them mad. ----- Also, I wouldn't go for the phone-call. If she's neglected to answer your text, and we're pretty sure she's read it and is currently hiding behind plausible denial, the chances of her picking up... are slim. Ideally, you'd like her to picture the following. *guy releases a an exacerbated grunt, grabs his phone and starts mashing the buttons to send a text whilst shaking his head with a Self-amused smile. Picture the face of a fighter, begrudgingly admitting the brilliance with his sparring-opponent just whooped him, who is now plotting his revenge. The 'begrudging-Touché-face'. YES, it's weird to have it be that specific. But this IS the extent to which people (mainly women) read into texts. Start (ab)using it. ----------------------------- Why Touché? Because it suggests you are fencing, sparring, playing. There's something to win, and she did good. It puts you in the jury-position, flatters her and gives your interaction a playful SPAM at the same time! ----------------------------- I'm sure you'll think on it. |
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| Author: | kingmack07 [ Mon Oct 24, 2011 10:11 pm ] |
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So I should just wait for her to text or call me and I shouldn't add her on Facebook? How long should I wait cause I would like to see her this weekend? |
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| Author: | Quillard [ Mon Oct 24, 2011 10:27 pm ] |
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Never told you to wait, mate... and no...of course you shouldn't wait for her to text you. And again. Don't accept her invite on facebook. I'm not gonna write the whole thing down again. Reread the bunch. You'll get it. |
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| Author: | kingmack07 [ Mon Oct 24, 2011 11:58 pm ] |
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Man you are cryptic with your words. Good shit. What I was able to deduce from your writing was: Text her something that will put me in control...but what? Just something clever and not a question? |
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| Author: | Quillard [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 6:39 am ] |
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Quote: ----------
Those.
Step 1. Absolve Right now the fact that she hasn't replied will stop her from replying in the future. It's a breech of etiquette, It's awkward. So first, rid her of that. Absolve her of that crime with a 'cruel temptress type-cast' Like this: "Argh, [name], you know this is only making it harder for me to forget you, right? Hadn't pegged you as the cruel type ;P." Or "Devil-Woman, You're turning me into a cliché! :p" ---- |
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| Author: | adaption [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 12:25 pm ] |
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well firstly might i ask why did you wait three days to take action? the longer you wait the more you fade from her memory, out of sight out of mind applies here, so much can happen in 3 days that sooner or later youl be out of the picture to her, another thing is that your txt didnt pop out amongst the dozens of other txts she gets from freinds and guys just like you, or lastly it might be that she read your txt but shes gotten others since then and yours got shuffled around with the rest and she forgot to go back to it, if you need help on how to improve on txt game and keep girls from flaking i can refer you to some great products that have helped me greatly with problems like this and its free and full of content, let me know if your intrested and il hook you up! |
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| Author: | juan47 [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 2:12 pm ] |
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Quote: AmazingArt, says to call and invite her out for next weekend and not mention anything about the previous encounters (lack of call/text response).
Good, never give her an upper hand in the situation.
Quill, you are telling me to absolve her lack of response by, texting OR calling her? And should I still invite her to the party? She's the whole package! (I AM trying to not to put her pussy on a pedestal though) |
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| Author: | kingmack07 [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 3:25 pm ] |
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I absolutely will appreciate the texting guidance. Doesn't hurt to learn more. I ma add her today and see if she messages me and if not I'll contact her on Facebook tomorrow |
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