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| Author: | Kabi [ Sat Oct 22, 2011 1:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I got the number |
Okay, so last night I went out, played a little, and got 2 numbers. First girls was a solid 9 the other one was like a 6. What do I do know? Do I call her to talk, or do I text her? What do I start with saying? What should I talk about? How long should we talk? These are the questions that runs in my head. Any experienced out there that knows what I should do? Im already on day 1 and she wanted me to call today 
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| Author: | SeductMe [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 1:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I got the number |
Quote: Okay, so last night I went out, played a little, and got 2 numbers.
i smell fear of messing it up. i experience that too. Unfortunately, it's an AFC thought you (we) need to get rid off.First girls was a solid 9 the other one was like a 6. What do I do know? Do I call her to talk, or do I text her? What do I start with saying? What should I talk about? How long should we talk? These are the questions that runs in my head. Any experienced out there that knows what I should do? I'm already on day 1 and she wanted me to call today when you start learning you need to let go the outcome! seriously! work for the skill not the outcome. it's like riding a bicycle, you can learn as much theory as you want but you'll never gonna make it the first time in practice. To answer you question, i used to text first because i was too stressed to call a girl. now i always go for the call. She asked you to call her today, if you didn't answer that with a "Okay" call her tomorrow, p.s: my fav answer to "Call me ..." is "Maybe". And before you call her, call 2-3 girls, any girls. or anyone you can talk to. this will make it much easier for you to call her with much less stress and more confidence.and i guess 2~15 min is a good time interval. What to say first: -HEY! *callback humor/funny nickname* (she laughs, and you'll be amazed how much girls talk when they are in a good mood) -Always have a reason to call ('asking' her out, building attraction...) -Don't plan what you're going to say. -Be a good listener and look for conversational hooks. -Cocky-funny is almost a MUST in phone game. -Always be the one ending the conversation, and try to end it on high note. |
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| Author: | Kabi [ Sun Oct 23, 2011 10:56 am ] |
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Yes, I was feeling fear of messing it up because she is really nice! I was stressed out because of this, but then I finally pulled myself together and called her to chat a bit, and ended the call after 10 minutes because I was going in to a bar. It went good, im going to talk to her again today and try to build some attraction. Thanks for the advice SeductMe! |
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