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Author:  stylemania [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 2:14 am ]
Post subject:  I may officially have effed up!!!!!! Advice needed quickly
I text her:

Me: Hey Hey! What did sushi A say to Sushi B? Wasaaa bi! : ) So how's it going?
Her: That's funny!
Me: Soo shall we go out for a drink? I have another sushi joke to share? ; )
Her: Good still at the work.



Bail me out of this mess quickly fellow PUAs.

I haven't responded yet!! Thanks all and anyone for advice!

Edit:

So I did a hail Mary and sent her the following:

Me: "You have to help me name: the cops are after a funny, intelligent, handsome and charming guy. I am thinking bar X would be a good hiding spot. lol : )"
Her: Right Now?
Me: Yup or maybe in 45 min?
Her: No, I can't, I am still working on some stuff here.
Me: Oh ok no worries :)





Well that's it fellas, I officially crashed and burned!!!


Cheers!!!! :cry:
Author:  detox75 [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 2:54 am ]
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watch the length of your replys relative to hers, your dangerously close to overgaming her.

What did she reply to your last text?
Author:  stylemania [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 2:57 am ]
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watch the length of your replys relative to hers, your dangerously close to overgaming her.

What did she reply to your last text?
Me: "You have to help me name: the cops are after a funny, intelligent, handsome and charming guy. I am thinking bar X would be a good hiding spot. lol : )"
Her: Right Now?
Me: Yup or maybe in 45 min?
Her: No, I can't, I am still working on some stuff here.
Me: Oh ok no worries




I officially crashed and burned! :cry: This is the second time I ask her out and she rejects me. All games aside, if she really wanted to see me, she would have said yes after work or rescheduled. Now the ball is in her court! :cry:
Author:  detox75 [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 3:11 am ]
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its hard to generate attraction via text dude, don't beat yourself up
Author:  mad.genius [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 3:13 am ]
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there is nothing wrong with that. You crashed but dont burn please- :D
sometimes you have to try again and again and thats the fun of it. If girls agreed so quickly, then it wont be fun.
"sometimes you have to try again and again without taking it as rejection. I once had to try 9 times to progress from foreplay to sex"
brad p.
Instead of asking her out, bait her to ask you to be out with you
"hey, i am going to blah blah and it is just going to be so much fun"
now dont invite her. Let her take the bait, may be she says,"oh! I am free at that time"
keep building attraction and keep baiting, "hey, you wont believe where i am going, its going to be so much fun"
"ovesell stories from your life"
rob judge
keep baiting till you get the fish in the hook.
Thanks
just a friend of khuram
Author:  stylemania [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 3:14 am ]
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its hard to generate attraction via text dude, don't beat yourself up
Well, we saw each other 3 times and kissed passionately. And I really wasn't trying to game her. I really liked her. Oh well, I suppose I will have to give up on pursuing her. This was the second consecutive NO from her. If she liked me, she would have tried to reschedule.


I am giving up on this girl, which sucks cause we had loads in common and I really liked her. :(

Thanks man for your help :)
Author:  detox75 [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 3:16 am ]
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no problem, its a numbers game, move on and conquer, your next soulmate is right around the corner.
Author:  stylemania [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 3:18 am ]
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Quote:
there is nothing wrong with that. You crashed but dont burn please- :D
sometimes you have to try again and again and thats the fun of it. If girls agreed so quickly, then it wont be fun.
"sometimes you have to try again and again without taking it as rejection. I once had to try 9 times to progress from foreplay to sex"
brad p.
Instead of asking her out, bait her to ask you to be out with you
"hey, i am going to blah blah and it is just going to be so much fun"
now dont invite her. Let her take the bait, may be she says,"oh! I am free at that time"
keep building attraction and keep baiting, "hey, you wont believe where i am going, its going to be so much fun"
"ovesell stories from your life"
rob judge
keep baiting till you get the fish in the hook.
Thanks
just a friend of khuram
That's some really good advice and I thought about baiting her, but I got caught up in the moment and wanted to see her. Second consecutive No = No I am not interested in womanese language. Oh well!!!! I tried. :)
Author:  mad.genius [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 3:27 am ]
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my vote and your next question please?
Author:  SmoothOp [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 3:35 am ]
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my vote and your next question please?
Its f'ing Khuram!!!! This is his signature move!! Haha, if you remain normal under this new name, I'm fine with you!! BTW people don't ask for rep.
Author:  stylemania [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 3:36 am ]
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my vote and your next question please?
Thanks - You must be Khuram! hehe


I may ask her out next Thursday for a friday evening date, but I think I just need to drop this girl. If she really were into me, she would have tried to reschedule.

Asking her out again would just make me come across as pathetic and Beta!!!

Thanks for your help :)
Author:  mad.genius [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 3:41 am ]
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if you want to leave her, leave her hanging. Dont say its over, bye4ever or anything like that. Just stop texting her and whenever she texts you send her casual distracted replies. Girls can change their mind, anytime
Author:  mad.genius [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 3:43 am ]
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my vote and your next question please?
Thanks - You must be Khuram! hehe


I may ask her out next Thursday for a friday evening date, but I think I just need to drop this girl. If she really were into me, she would have tried to reschedule.

Asking her out again would just make me come across as pathetic and Beta!!!

Thanks for your help :)
i am his room mate and i was the one to give him the idea of asking for vote after helping :-D
Author:  stylemania [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 3:45 am ]
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if you want to leave her, leave her hanging. Dont say its over, bye4ever or anything like that. Just stop texting her and whenever she texts you send her casual distracted replies. Girls can change their mind, anytime
But you agree that turning me down (even though I gave her like a 45 minute notice) was a HUGE IOD? I mean, all games aside (mind games, PUA, bla bla bla) if she really liked me, she would have rescheduled, or shown some type of indication that she liked me?
Author:  mad.genius [ Fri Oct 14, 2011 3:50 am ]
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i agree
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