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| Author: | X_Factor360 [ Fri Oct 07, 2011 4:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | How to Escalate on a "Nice" Girl |
I'm 21 and she just turned 18 (young, I know). Anyways, she is really into her faith. We've only hung out a couple of times, and from what I can tell, she is super inexperienced with guys (we've made out several times too). But... She also talks about marriage and "babies" a lot which leads me to believe that she want's to escalate eventually; I just don't know when. When we are kissing, it feels like she wants to progress but something in her mind is telling her "NO". Is there any way around this? How should I approach a nun? Details: - We dig each other - We MIGHT be getting a room together - I'm still a virgin (probably should have mentioned that eariler) Thanks broskies!!!!!! |
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| Author: | jpmorganjr [ Fri Oct 07, 2011 7:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Nothing is Static |
She needs to trust you first. Trust that she is safe with you. It is scary for a woman to let a man inside her. Especially a virgin. Move forward with your desire constantly and consistently. Act from your desire with her in every moment. Besides this being the most effective thing for you to do, it is also attractive when a man fearlessly express his desire. The only thing that should slow you down is your compassion for how she FEELS in every moment. Notice I said slow you down, not stop you. Even if you have to resort to baby steps - one finger inching towards her at a time. Maybe minutes. Maybe days. Maybe weeks. But ALWAYS moving forward. Her deepest desires and values are the best way to know when to slow down, and you don't get to know these through her words. Do not concern yourself with her words too much as they are fluid and always changing. Concern yourself with how she feels through being empathetic to her. She is someone's daughter and maybe someone's sister. She wants to be safe and she deserves to be. A Great man will make her feel safe, because with him she is safe. |
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| Author: | Vanazzul [ Fri Oct 07, 2011 12:37 pm ] |
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This actually isn't complicated. David DeAngelo once said "Take two step forward, one step back". That's the motto you should keep. It's your job to escalate, she won't tell you that it's ok, she's never done it. Easy way to do it is while you are kissing. Start slowly by touching the erogenous zone with your hand. (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erogenous_zone) Then proceed to go for sexual zones, she will probably push you back (that's your one step back), do so and slowly go back towards sexual zones. Just do it slowly and subconsciously, she will start feeling like this is natural. |
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