Hi All! I went on a date with this girl whom I met online. Long story short, we were trying to set up a date for 2 weeks, but she kept canceling on me (twice). But we finally met for a coffee and then she invited me out to meet her friends, which I gladly accepted. I had a great time, all of her friends (mostly guys) were super cool.
So we were on a date for 7-8 hours; we did not drink that much, maybe 2-3 beers. At the end of the night, I drove her back to her car, and I hugged her, and then SHE kissed me. She invited me over for breakfast, but I just couldn't make it due to prior obligations. (So she may have felt rejected, which was the last thing I wanted her to feel).
So she texts me that very same night and asks me if I got home safely, I tell her I had a great time. The next day (Sunday) we texted a bit, and Monday we did not text.
So here's the deal: I texted her on Tuesday and asked her out again thinking she would love to see me again (she kissed me, which means she likes me, right?). I ask her if it works for her and she responds with:
Her: Maybe, I don't know yet.
Me: Okay, well I would like to see you, but if you cannot make it, no worries
Her: Idk, my friend just got kicked out of his house and is stauing with me over the weekend now. a little creepu cause his roommate claims he talked to himself. Creepy, no? Never a dull moment.
Me: Friends first, that is important. Don't kick him out if he talks to himself, tho! haha
Her: Of course not
So we actually saw each other again on Saturday, although under the most unusual circumstances. She invited me over to a bar to hang out with her "so called" guy friend who was staying with her over the weekend. Her text read, "We are going to X place for drinks." SO we meet up, and I end up talking to her friends. Later on in the evening she texts me "I want to kiss you" but I was being so polite to her friend that I did not want to make him feel uncomfortable.
A bit about her personality: She is very outgoing, dresses conservatively (yet sexy); I like her, simply put. There is just one little thing that has been bothering me as of lately: She canceled the first date TWICE, rejected my proposal of a second date (saying her guy friend was staying at her house), dragged her guy friend along (which was fine but I still wanted some alone time with her ), sometimes waits an entire day to respond to my messages. Is she playing with me? I just feel like she has canceled so many dates, and it makes me feel like I am more of an option than a romantic priority to her.
So the next day (Sunday, after we went out) she texts me and asks me if I had a good time, that I was funny last night (a little incident that happened), etc. Then I texted her by accident the following message:
Me: Chicken. I don't know my schedule tomorrow cause I have a meeting at 2. How badly do you need it? haha
Her: How badly do I need what?
Me: Oops wrong person. My roommate needed her proactive and is sleeping over @ her bf's house. She wanted me to drive it to her. lol
Her: That happens
Me: I chicken and pasta for dinner
I haven't heard from her since and I don't wanna be a pushy so I haven't contacted her (she didn't comment on my gourmet cooking lol). Does this come across as weird to you guys or am I just overanalyzing it? How often should I be contacting her after having met her twice? How do I text her next since she tends to cancel or come up with some excuse why she cannot meet?
HELP everyone! I may be suffering from one-ingitis here, but she is the first girl who showed a genuine interest in me since my ex gf and I broke up. It feels good spending time with her. :p
