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Author:  Mr-Rev [ Wed Sep 28, 2011 7:51 pm ]
Post subject:  "nun" .. I'm stumped.
Unfortunetly I don't know the full situation with this one, she won't really give me many details but here is what I can tell you.

HB8, met her 4 times, 1 time at her house, every time includes large amounts of making out, also told me many a time that she likes me.

Problem? She calls herself a 'nun'..
What I can work out, after her last breakup about 9 months ago, she had some problems with other guys, involving a married man or something along those lines and gave up on men and sex.

She gave in on the guy thing after 6 months for me, but seems pretty adamant to not let me get that Fclose, which is driving me insane! She really ticks my boxes and causes to much sexual frustration on my end.

I know I turn her on because she has to push me away a lot. But I just can't seem to break this barrier. I can't even do extremely slow sexual kino escalation, every time I get close to touching anywhere slightly more sexual she pushes my hand away..

It's basically kissing.. And only kissing!
I need to break this.

Any advice?
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Wed Sep 28, 2011 10:06 pm ]
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How close together are these meet ups? I'd say give her some space, maybe get some jealousy going.

Next time you're with her, use lots of future pacing, comfort game, connections to her, generally present yourself as someone special. She'll feel like you're a guy worth keeping around, and if you're otherwise a little distant from her, she'll be scared of losing you.

None of this is guaranteed to work. Don't plan any of it, let it flow naturally. If it doesn't work, move on to the next one, she'll indicate to you when she's ready.
Author:  Omalie Cat [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 12:30 am ]
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I'd agree with Slip n Slide 100%
The main thing is, don't be afraid of losing her. Keep trying, but don't let her drive you crazy
Easier said then done..
Author:  Mr-Rev [ Thu Sep 29, 2011 5:53 am ]
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Saw her three times with about 4 days gap each one, then a week without seeing her and saw her Tuesday.

Yeah I know you're both right, I think my main problem is that I am getting attached, we talk a lot via text and I have some feelings towards her, which is knew to me. So may be tryin to hard to generate feelings of intimacy between us?

I'll think I'll take it slower on the physical side of things then? Rather to push her sexually but get her more comfortable with me? We already are pretty comfortable, can cuddle and talk for hours already.

Thanks both of you I always enjoy seeing a post from you guys.
I was thinking a long the same lines of the advice you gave me but hearing it from you makes it easier to focus upon.

Much love ;)
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